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should i do it?
okay well this boy whom i've known not that well but hes on the football team and i'm on the cheerleading team and he keeps asking me to come over his house but does he mean to have sex or just to chill?? i think he means sex and if he does i want to but i dont want to have sex with him cause i really dont know him that well.should i go over there on friday xoxo gossipbabe
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No, you really shouldnt.
Heres how this works. If you were mature enough to have sex with him, you wouldnt. Why? Because you dont know him, and random hookups are something that stupid people and TV Drama Series stars enjoy.
Because you aren't mature enough to have sex with him, you're here asking. If you have to ask someone if you should sleep with someone, the answer is almost certainly no.
Should you go over to his house? No. Because you arent certain what you should do, and your judgement is compromised because you want to.
Also, I'll put it this way. If a guy invites you over to his house, and he CAN have sex with you, he will.
If you dont think you should have sex with someone, then dont. You should be strong enough in that conviction that you could go to his house and NOT sleep with him. If you can't do that, don't go to his house.
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I think that you should go. Just to hang out. Dont make him think that you're going to give it to him. Then maybe he wont think its anything but you two hanging out.
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i think you should go but you should let him know that he has notthing comming his way becuase you dont know him that well. tell him you dont know what kinda girls he usally mess with but your diffrent and that you dont have sex with guys you dont know that well. if he go off about this then you know that that is what he wanted in the first place. now you said you want. i thing you want to becuase he is cute you should want to have sex with guys that are cute all the time thier are alot of desease out thier and its always the cute ones that have them so becarefull
hope i helped
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I don't think that he wants you over at his house just o have sex. Think about it, you barely know him and (I'm assuming)that he doesn't know you that well either. So to have sex with a girl you barely know is kinda weird, don't you think? So it's most likely that he wants to chill with you.
Besides, if he begins to do something which you're not comfortabel about, just tell him to stop because it makes you feel uncomfortable and you know that you don't want to so make it plain.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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Well since I don't know the guy, I don't know.
You could go over to his house, but if he tries something that you're not comfortable with, just tell him.
If you let him do what he wants, then he knows that he can take advantage of you.
Be careful, and tell him that you like him as a friend, but you don't wanna sleep with him.
But he could be a cool guy who just wants to hang out, and there's nothing wrong with that.
Once this guy invited me to his house, and I was a bit worried that he'd wanna have sex or something, but he was really funny, and said he wanted to get to know me better since I seemed like a cool person.
We ended up playing random video games, and then making our own pizzas and stuff. Now we're really close friends :)
So good luck, and don't do anything you don't wanna do :D
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