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Sex hurts ? =s
I've had sex so many times with my boyfriend. So it's not one of the first time things. It didn't hurt when I first had sex either.. so I'm wondering why it hurts a bit now.
I like it rough, I'm always relaxed.. but after 40 mins or an hour, it starts to hurt? Like a stabbing sensation. It's not like we stay in the same position.
Is there something wrong with me? It's been like 7 months since we first had sex.. Does it have to do anything with his size er what?
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Your body isn't built for marathon sex.
Comparative experience. My girlfriend is the type who is better with sex for 15 or 20 minutes, 3 times daily. This is because more than that, and she starts to get rubbed raw both on the inside and the outside.
Basically, you get sore and tender. Its not something wrong with you, its just that your body has a point when rubbing things starts to irritate skin, maybe cause inflamation, etc.
Cut sex a bit shorter and you can avoid hurting.
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I don't think there is anything wrong with you.
As romantic and sexy as sexual marathons sound, our bodies were built for a "WAM, BAM, lets make a baby!" not for sensual, hour-long escapades. Human beings might enjoy that, but we weren't designed with it in mind.
Size might be a factor, but it probably just has to do with too much friction (rough sex is fun, with lube, lots of it, reapplied liberally and several times as it starts to fade away) and with pressure. There are other things in that part of your body, your bladder for instance, that do not take kindly to being roughed up.
Stop having vaginal sex when it becomes uncomfortable. When sex is no longer fun, it's time to stop and do something else, or at very least take a water and lube break.
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i dont think anythings wrong with you..
but like even if you are changing positions.. and your relaxed 40mins- to an hour of rough sex will start to hurt a bit, i mean think about it.
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There could be many different reasons why intercourse is becoming uncomfortable. I would make sure, first and foremost that you do not have any kind of STD. This can cause a great deal of pain during intercourse with your partner. If you do not have anything, then it sounds like you may be getting dry. If it starts hurting after about 40 min to 1 hour, then this is probably what is going on. You could try lubrication...if you become dry in your vaginal area, then it will start to hurt. Try lubrication, such as K-Y Jelly. If it still hurts after using the lubrication, then I would suggest going and seeing your doctor. Good luck.
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