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Sex :)
Sex. Glorious sex.
Ok, I haven't ever tried it but very soon I'll be homealone and me and the boyfriend, been together a year now, want to try it for the first time. I know the first time is very likely to be HORRIFICALLY BAD, and we've tried before and had problems of 'getting it in'. That wasn't fun, but we took a break, moved on with the foreplay, and now, when we're much much more comfortable with each other, we want to try again. And I say we, because last time I didn't particularly want to, but now I feel very comfortable with the concept.
My question is, I often hear about whether women are 'good in bed' or not. And I know in foreplay women should have a certain amoutn of skill or do certain things that would obviously make them better in bed, but I want to know, WHILST having sex is there anything a woman can do to make the sex better?
Because all I've ever really seen is... bouncing :)
Could you suggest any tactics or positions or techniques or mere suggestions for what could better the experience for both my partner and myself??
Because, apart from the bouncing... I'm clueless :P ^^".
Thanks, F.
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You learn tactics and positions. Sex is a skill, and the only way you better a skill is by practicing.
Whats most important is giving each other feed back. If something feels good, say so. If someone needs to stop doing something, say so. Be an active participant.
One of the worst things about inexperienced girls, is not that they do things wrong, its that they don't do anything. Girls will freeze up and lay there too self conscious to do anything, including enjoy the sex.
Make a little noise, give him encouragement, get him to respond to you, and just always be doing something. Whether its talking, rubbing him, moaning, moving, etc.
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