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questionsss, help!
okay, well i have 4 questions in this one, so if you answer it please try to answer all three.
my best friend gets mad at me like every other day for the exact same reason, because i decided to sit with different people at lunch and talk to different people in the hallways. its been like this since like third grade. she has ALWAYS been extremely moody, its just getting worse and worse though. plus, shes always accusing me of things. i was about to totally tell her off on friday, but i knew i would feel horrible after i did. because once i do something mean, i regret it right after .but i truly don't know what to do anymore. ignoring doesn't work. i ignored her for a year and half and it didn't help. well of course, but we were young then . i don't know what to do. advice?
there is this one girl in my athletics class who is kinda poor. (i don't mean to sound snobby or anything, but i live in a small town and my family is about the richest ones there) before i knew that and acctually got to hand out with her, we were like best buds. but ever since i went over to her house, she annoys me sooo badly, and whenever i think about her, im just disguisted. shes really nice and stuff but i just can't help it. and i like poorist or something? and when we are at school she annoys me less, but still does. so i dont know, but when we hang out its like a nightmare.
this past weekend, i went to my 2 friends cheer competition. this other girl that they were gonna take got grounded. i didn't even know they were gonna invite her. then her mom was like why don't you come next weekend with us too (they have another comp. then too) and they were like no, we were gonna invite anna(friend) instead, but she got grounded thats why we invited courtney(me). and shes supposed to be ungrounded by then so we were gonna take her. but if she can't come then you can come instead. it seemed like i was just their last resort or something, it made me feel really bad, idk what my question is here though.
i have a problem with jealousy. its completely ridiculous, like stuff i shouldn't even get jealous about. like if someone else knows the words to my favorite song, then i feel jealousy build up inside me. or the example about the cheer thing. i went this time so it was only fair that someone else go, but i still felt completely jealous. does anyone know how to fix this?
sorry for all the quesitons. but please answer each one! plleaseeee!
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You're being a control freak.
YOU have the power to choose who your friends are.
Do what you want; it's your life. If your "friends" are getting jealous over stuff like THAT, wait until you all actually grow up.
I think you need to redefine the word "friend" anad find some people who have those traits.
These people aren't really worth keeping if they're treating you like this.
On a side note, please only ask one thing per question. It makes it easier for people to give you specific responses.
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1. And, why, exactly is this person still your best friend? She wouldn't be mine. In fact, she wouldn't be my friend at all.
2. If she is really nice and all, why does her family's financial standing have anything to do with anything? Money and nice things are only material. You can't buy happiness, and you can't put a price tag on friendship. Maybe you should consider this girl, who is nice and friendly, to be your new best friend, rather than the one who treats you like shit?
3. Well, if they could only take one person, you weren't a last resort, but a second choice. Sometimes that's how it goes in life. You can't always be first pick, but being second pick isn't all that bad.
4. If someone else didn't know the words to that song, you wouldn't either. Why? It takes people liking a song that much in order for it to even exist.
As for being jealous, ask yourself "Is this really worth getting all worked up about, or is it something petty?"
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