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flirting


Question Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 7:23 pm

Can you help me out with flirting. Like i can flirt while texting and im'ing but not in person. Like i just go blank. I dont know what to say. I can smile back but how do i flirt? thanks :)

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1love1life answered Sunday February 10 2008, 9:46 pm:
You seem a bit shy then. Just get the guts to say what you do through text. Its basically the same thing except the words are coming out of your mouth. going blank isnt always a bad thing, sometimes guy find it cute that you dont know what to say, its kind of like a compliment to them say "hey i must be hot if she doesnt know what to say to me". Flirting is most of the time initiated by the guy though. but if you want to take the first step them go ahead. The first step to everything is starting conversation. and dont forget to make eye contact. A girls most powerful weapon is her eyes. you can say a thousand things with just one look. Hope i helped.

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orphans answered Sunday February 10 2008, 7:35 pm:
well, flirting usually when you start, just comes naturally, especially when you have a crush! :-]
when you are talking to a guy, and you want to flirt, usually you smile and laugh alot (not a full on HAHAHAHAHA lol, but a kind of giggle.) it really depends on the topic, and is kind of hard for me to explain, but i found some websites that will most definetly help you out! And since you said you didnt think that you could flirt, then i found a flirt quiz for you too! Pretty much though, flirting is the same thing as when you are texting, only they are like two different languages (if that makes sense :-])

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the first link, scroll down and there is a quiz, and the last one is a quiz.

GoOd LuCk!!!

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Sima answered Sunday February 10 2008, 7:24 pm:
Ohh wow, I'm gonna do my best to answer this one! Haha, I'm not exactly a flirting expert; but here goes:

- When you guys joke about something, lightly place your hand over his arm/shoulder/hand.
- Be the first one to say 'hi'. Your confidence will show.
- Smile & Laugh.. a lot. But don't do it too much, otherwise he'll think that you're weird.
- Compliment him!
- Whisper in his ear.
- Playfully shove him.

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luvbug555 answered Sunday February 10 2008, 7:09 pm:
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There are multiple ways to act flirty, here are some of the best suggestions:

Compliments-Be sure to compliment them on things that are true. Sometimes people will make up compliments just to talk to someone, but that is the total wrong thing to do. You really should compliment on things you really like, so you sound more sincere naturally.

Intense Eye-The intense eye is a trick that models spend years perfecting. You must give your hottie an intense stare that is both sexy and mysterious at the same time. Also, try staring at the floor and slowly raising your eyes, looking directly at him. Once you have caught his attention, give him a sexy but subtle smile. You should try practicing the look in the mirror, and if completed correctly you should feel as sexy as a celeb.

Eyelash Batting- This trick is one of the oldest tricks known to man. It gives you a sweet and vulnerable factor, which guys love because it make themselves feel powerful. Remember to practice this if you intend to use this technique.

Hair Flip and Twirl- If you want to catch a guys attention, flip your hair casually over your shoulder, twist it and then untwist it, tuck it behind your ears, or run your hands through it.

Soft Giggle and Smile-According to polls, a laugh and a smile are the sexiest things a female can wear. If you perfect your smile and laugh to be seductive and sweet, you will find some great results. Practice forcing a natural smile and laugh, it can help through awkward situations.

Magic Touch- You can learn to brush a guy in such a way that you send tingles up and down his spine. Casually tap him while laughing, rest your head on his shoulder if you’re tired and hold his hand when you're nervous; it will give him a sense of manliness and you a touch sweetie-pie, no pun intended.

my favorite tricks! i texted them to my phone so theyr always on me haha

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