So I've been talking to this guy and he's really nice, sweet, charming. Basically, perfect. He talks to me like he likes me, he's told me that he feels a 'connection' with us.
The thing is, I feel like he tells every girl he talks to, the same exact thing. Then that makes me think that maybe I'm wasting my time or something?
Should I just let him go and forget about him or what?
tinkerbelle92 answered Saturday February 9 2008, 2:46 am: Well, if you don't know for sure, then don't forget about him just yet.
Make sure you get your facts right before you let him go.
Feeling like he is telling every girl that is just an insecurity. Just don't worry about it too much. And, that being said, don't rush into anything since you aren't sure. Try to keep your emotions under control until you find out.
xsillygirlx answered Friday February 8 2008, 11:39 pm: he might be a player. Just give one shot if it seems like he is acting like that alot more forget him!. He's probably playing the little stupid love game just to see what happens between you and see if he wants you or not.
plume answered Friday February 8 2008, 11:36 pm: make sure you know that as a fact that he tells every girl the same thing, you want to be sure and you don't want to have doubts when you're in a relationship. but if that's what is commonly thought of him, then chances are he's the kind of guy who doesn't put all his eggs in one basket, as in he'll take whoever girl who takes his compliments to heart first. you want to be w/someone you're sure wouldn't be surrounding themeselves around girls,trust your gut if this is how you feel about him. as charming as he may be, it's not as special and meaningful as when you're with someone who's charming only to YOU. i hope this was helpful.you're smart for not going into it right away and for thinking it through, you'll be okay. [ plume's advice column | Ask plume A Question ]
orphans answered Friday February 8 2008, 9:02 pm: Don't let him go if you don't know the facts because you don't know for sure that he is telling every girl this, but it seems like your gut instinct is telling you to let him go, you seem really unsure and if I were you, I'd follow your heart or at least find out the truth before you jump to any conclusions. Because if you don't know the truth, you can't know for sure that you are wasting your time. Yuh know?
Good luckk [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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