this is random and whatever but like i dont get it. i hate to brag and sound like a total stuck up bitch but like, for some reason good looking guys never like me..like this year at school since im new i thought hot guys would like me. and like okay so im not popular or anything, and i dont have a group of people or anything, i just have scattered friends here and there. so anyways, i mean like..i think im kind of pretty and im not ugly or anything..i feel like better looking guys should like me..i want a boyfriend really badly. i feel like that would make me happy :] but for some reaosn the nerdy weird guys always like me. its getting a little annoying. and the guys i like never like me back. i can just tell. i want a boyfriend, but i want him to be cute so i can show him off to my friends and it will make me happy too. thats my key to happiness right now, which i need more of. i just wish cute guys would like me..and i cant think of any reasons they wouldnt..maybe because im not popular but thats so over rated. people should be able to go out with anyone they want, it doesnt matter whos popular and whos not. ive seen some hot guys but there not in any of my classes. and i can already tell there not intrsted. why is that. im not ugly! gr
Same goes for the guys that like you. I know this sounds way lame.. but maybe give them a chance. They like you for who you are. And looks can be way deceiving. At least get to know them better first. And sometimes the good looking guys can have a stuck up attitude because they KNOW they are hot. Trust me, it's better to have someone caring than someone like that.
Just try and get to know people better. Many guys will find that they like you because you have an amazing personality! not just because you are pretty. Its way better to have them think both! :)
But don't worry about this whole thing. Sometimes you can tell when you are desperate for guys. And just make sure you aren't focusing this whole thing on YOUR looks. Looks really don't matter in the long run. You want guys to like you for who you are.
Don't rush things. Just be patient.
Someone will come along when you least expect it.
Uniq_The_Geek answered Friday February 8 2008, 10:19 pm: have you ever heard of the saying "big things come in small packages"? well thats it. sometimes you have to look beyond the way a person looks or stereotypical opinions and accept a person for who they are. sometimes the cute boys that are too good to be true are the one's who will cheat on you and break your heart not caring. not all but some. i suggest you look into those "nerdy wierd" guys and see what they have to offer you. who knows, you might grow to love him. and as far as the whole showing off thing, it doesnt matter what he looks like. okay, looks count but its not supposed to be superior as to personality. because your friend can have a handsome boyfriend, but you can have the boyfriend who will always be there for you and love you for who you are, regardless of anything, and she will be jelous of you for having that. looks arent everything mama, so0 just keep your options open and try not to be so shallow no offense. good luck
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