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what is wrong with mee?
16/f. god i am so sick of this --okay, so myself and my closest friends are all eachothers pretty much close friends ("clique" --yet I hate that word) but whenever like 3 of them hang out, and I don't get invited to hang I always feel like I don't have friends. I feel like they don't like me and don't want to ask me. I know that I should ask them to hang out, but I feel like they already have plans and I don't want to be the tagalong when they already had this planned.
but it's so hypocritcal.. when I was out with my two friends, we had to lie to my other friends because they would freak out if they knew where we were .. and us three were like "its so gay how we can't do anything without like all 10 of us being invited."
but it's the fact that I just get so like depressed, I seriously feel like i have nobody. what's wrong with me.
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Its the same thing with my friends im not the one 2 tag along. But i don't take it as bad as you do. What i do is just seem like i don't care if they call me to go to the movies or whatever. I actually feel that way so you basically are going to have to act like you don't. They should notice that and i know it sounds weird but ask you to hang out more.
If you don't like that then you can be the one to make the plans. Just ask them to go wherever that you wanted to or just hang out if they already have plans most likely they will ask you to go with them.
Best of luck if you have any questions don't hesitate to message me back
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It sucks when you feel left out, I know, trust me. And since you have this set group of friends, it's hard to break that cliquey thing, which is tough because if one person isn't invited, you can't relate to anyone else about being left out. So feeling alone is pretty much inevitable, and it hurts. There is nothing wrong with you, you are completley normal, and most girls in your situation feel the same way you do. But, don't be depressed, because your friends did say to you that it's stupid that all 10 of you can't say anything about where you are unless everyone else is there, so they feel the same way you do.
Just ask them to hang with you, maybe even talk about it with them, because these things can really bring a person down. I understand. trust me.
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