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Guy Friends
i make friends with girls pretty easy but i just am not that good with making friends with guys! can you guys please tell me some tips and how to be friends with guys??? THANX!
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Rule number one: be yourself.
Guys don’t like girls who put on acts, they don't like drama queens.
Guys appreciate girls with a good sense of humour and who have interests other than hair and make-up.
Music is a good subject to talk to a guy about, whether you’re into the same genres of music or different, its bound create an interesting conversation.
Guys also like originality within a girl, so if you don't agree with a statement he says e.g.: he thinks Die Hard is the best Movie ever made- and you think different, tell him by justifying yourself :)
The more you get talking, the more confidant you'll become with guys.
They’re not going to bite you, or laugh at you before you speak ((ad if they do...don’t encounter them again as clearly- they aren’t worth your time!).
I get on really well with guys because I've learnt that really, everyone is human, everyone is different and the opposite sex should not be seen as an intimidation. This is the twenty first century- we are equal now, so please don’t feel you are of a lower status when males are concerned :)
I can guarantee that the guys that you DO get talking to will have been looking for the same things that you are: companionship.
Good luck!
Take care,
-Alex
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if you have some guys in your class you could just go up and talk to them. trust me, i used to have the same problem. now all my best friends are guys.
or if you see one of them out of school, go up to them and go something like, "hey, you're in my math class, right?" and if he IS, he'll go, "yeah" and then you could just talk about what hes doing and stuff. then maybe he'll introduce you to some of his friends. just be sure to not go up to a boy and go "hey!! wanna hang sometime?!!?" thats just creepy.
hope it works. :)
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Ask your friends to introduce you to some guys. They're bound to know some. You'll be nervous naturally, but if you be yourself, you'll find that in a few weeks, you could have a new bunch of friends to hang out with.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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