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Oh well i went out with this girl for three and a half months well we got into a fight about 3 weeks ago and we broke up but being the kind of guy i am we were still going to be friends...so then 3 days ago we went to a basketball game and we made out for a little bit before i took her home however after i drop her off i find out she is going out with someone else so i feel like an ass for helping her cheat but thats just the start of this then sunday during half time of the superbowl game she calls me and says she is Pregnant(now first all we never had sex) So this leads to my questions 1) Should i tell her boyfriend she cheated with me on him? 2) Was i cheated on cause we just broke up 3 weeks ago today, and finally 3) What should i do to be there for her cause i still have many feelings for her????
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I agree with the other people who answered this. She didnt cheat on you, it was a little soon but.....Anways, you should not tell her boyfriend that she's pregnant. She will have to do that. Okay, number 1. No, if i were you i would just stay out of it. I think they will be going through alot right now, and that news would not help at all. 2. No, [as i said in the beginning], She did not cheat on you, it was a little soon, but.... and number 3. I think thats really sweet of you wanting to be there for her. This will be a very hard time for her if she decides to keep the baby. So, the more people there for her the better. Im not saying all the time, but just still talk to her, she will need all the friends she can get at this time.
Well, i hope I helped!
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Good Luck!
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heyy,
it really depends on how YOU feel.if u want to tell him then go ahead.its not your fault she was at lost to cheat on some guy, then get pregnant you dont have to feel guilty for kissing her if you hadnt realized that she was dating somebody else just trust your incstincts cuz thats all that matters ;]]
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Yes, you should tell the boyfriend about this because it will show him that she doesn't really love him and that he can break up with her.
The cheating wasn't your fault so get rid of that idea from your head right now! How do YOU feel about being with her? Can YOU live with the fact that you're seeing a girls who used you to cheat on somebody else. You don't need to worry about her being pregnant because she isn't your problem, her boyfriend should deal with this.
I know that this sounds cruel and hurtful, but this is the truth, you cannot blame yourself for somebody elses problems which they got themselves into and trying to lay on you.
I hope this helped,
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First of all, it is a little messed up that she went and did that three weeks after you broke up. At the same time, in her doing what she did to you, she is showing that she does not have the same feelings for you as you do for her. So, you should be happy in a way because you know how she feels... it's not worth waiting around to see if she comes back to you. If I were you, I would not go talk to her boyfriend. You broke up three weeks ago, you were not together when she slept with this other guy. So therefore, it was wrong what she did, but she did not cheat on you. I suggest just stepping back from the situation and letting things play out. It may be very difficult to rid yourself of those feelings for her, but she obviously doesn't want a romantic relationship with you. So, just step back and let her do what she has to do and move on with your own life. It will be hard at first but the awkardness around her will eventually die down. I hope that helps, let me know if you have any other questions!
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This is a really hard situation so I'm sorry your going through this! Really, the cheating isn't your fault, because you didn't know that she was dating someone while you were making out with her. Let her take care of the problem with the cheating and her boyfriend. Don't drag yourself into that. I'm not sure I understand your 2nd question so if you need to explain more, leave one in my inbox. Finally, really just be supportive of her, help her out when she needs it and just act like a true friend. Maybe throughout the pregnancy she'll realize how much you were there for her and how you really do care about her and maybe you two could develop a relationship again. Good luck with this!
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