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how to tell when boys are serious
17 female!
im in 12th grade. and in school, i talk to the hockey boys alot :) i dont know why but im just attracted to them. well i have these two boys nick and ben in two of my classes. they both have girlfriends. in our third hour nicks girlfriend is in our class with us but i dont really talk to them in there but our last hour they are always yelling my last name and stuff. and like today they were like COME HERE! and then i was like what and bens like i have to ask you something. and i was like what? and hes like will you go out with me and i just start laughing and hes like no im serious im like yeah thats why your going out with your girlfriend. and hes like no i dumped her. i know he was joking but then nick is like well if he wasnt going out with her would you go out with him? i probably would but i was like no! hahaha and then its freezing in that class, and i asked nick if i could wear his hockey jacket during class and ben is like noo dont let her she makes me want to kill myself because she wont go out with me. like jokingly. but then he gave it to me and ben walked away and i took his pencil back to my "lab table" with me and sat down. well all of a sudden i hear ben go, where is my pencil!! and then, he comes up from behind me and wraps his arms around me and takes me off of my seat. and when we line up at the door at the end of class and talk, ben was just staring at me. and i was like what are you doing! and i pushed his face the other way. and when us three were walking they were like hey hold hands with me, and i was in the middle and bens like i'll take front and you take back nick and they start laughing. they are always like you going to hangout with us today? and im like ummm no! because i always think they're joking around. i never know when they are being totally serious and i dont want to make a fool of myself...but i dont want to make them think i dont like them you know.
do you think they are serious about anything they say or do!?
thanks so much
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heyy girlie. funny thing, this kinda happened to me too. my boyfriend plays hockey & his name is ben too haha but anyways before we were going out he was always messing around with me, calling me buddy and after awhile i was thinking, im actually starting to fall for this boy. i asked him to hangout with me and some of my friends and after that, everything went from there :) if your interested in ben, i wouldnt try to ruin him and his girlfriend's relationship, but hangout with him in a group of people, see how he acts around you! you NEVER know what boys are thinking they are so hard to read. but if you dont give it a shot, you'll never know!
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Honestly, I really do think they are serious. Well Ben at least, you know? They are being playful and joking-ish because, well, they're guys. I think you should go for it! You could talk to Ben alone, or definitely hang out with them because you could really find out if Ben wants to go out with you. I would go for it, what have you got to lose? If they are mean and act like they were kidding the whole time, it makes them the fools. GO FOR IT!! haha
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It honestly sounds like at least one of them is serious. The question you have to ask yourself is: are they naturally flirty, and do they flirt with other girls like they do with you. If you like them, and want to know if one of them are serious, one day, try taking to joke farther. Play along with them, and see how far you guys will get. If they are just joking, by the time you take the joke farther, they will let you know (verbally or by expression) whether they are joking. If they get serious, or take the joke even farther, then I think at least ben is serious. Then again, maybe they are just attracted to you, and like flirting. But dont push them away. Play along, and see where it takes you.
hope i helped
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