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Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 11 months. We have has sex before and all that stuff. But not latley because were both scared of getting me pregnate because alot of younge teens our age are getting pregnate. 4 of my friends are pregnate , thats crazy. When were alone we get the chance to do sexual stuff. We do these things alot ad i mean alot , but we dont have sex. I just want to learn how to control my self and no one tell me dont put my self in that situation because doesn work . anything i can do to keep a good clean relationship .
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Being alone less often helps a lot, or at least, if you are alone, being alone where someone could come in at any moment, that kind of thing, helps. If you're not ready to give that up, you could try making some sort of verbal pact with him to stay abstinent. That way when one of you "gives in to temptation", the other will help stop the situation from progressing.
Something that you should really consider, though, is going on birth control (like everyone else suggested). The pill has a 99.5% success rate, the condom a 95% chance. It's true that abstinence is 100% effective - but that's only if you stay abstinent. Not having sex is a pretty good idea to prevent pregnancy, but going on the pill, or keeping a condom around, is a really good idea if you're worried about getting lost in the heat of the moment. A big reason why more and more teens are pregnant is that they tell themselves they won't have sex, so that when they end up having it it's unplanned and there's no birth control around.
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Well basically, I know exactly what you're talking about.
I've been in the exact situation girl.
I was totally paranoid with my boyfriend when we first started doing sexual things. I mean, even when we had dry sex, I'd think I got pregnant or something.But honestly, nothing really happens, unless somehow his dick is inside you and he cums.
But if you are both scared of having sex, you don't have to be.
I use trojan condoms with spermicide, and I really reccomend that. The spermicide has a less chance of sperm getting inside of you.
Also, if you want some extra protection, try birth control. That would really minimize your concern.
I'm sure it'll all work out. :]
Hope I helped hun.
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get some birth control.
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make him wear a condom...
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