i like this guy we have hung out a few times he's in one of my classes i have givin him head before and almost had sex with him i like him a lot he talks to a lot of girls but doesnt mess around with them hes actually still a virgin.. im not. he told me that he liked me but then i heard that he said the same exact thing to my friend a month back. before the first time we hung out he told me that he didnt want a relationship because he wanted to not be tied down to one girl.. i was upset and we stopped talking for a while cuz this girl got on him aim and acted like him and pissed me off. i started talking to him again after he appoligied to me.. i really like him and he told me that he likes me hes just afraid of commitment but then my friend told me that he told her that same stuff when he hungout with her a month or two ago .. he tells me that he doesnt like her at all they are over for sure because her dad doesnt like him but they were never dating.. what should i do? how should i act?
orphans answered Sunday January 13 2008, 6:32 pm: This guy sounds like he is a major league PLAYER and needs to be put in his place so I really wouldn't persue a relationship [it would not even be a realtionship because he doesn't want to be "tied down"] so I wouldn't even think about him if I were you. Who needs a guy that doesn't want to be with one girl specifically? You deserve sooo much more than that and can do soooo much better.
Good luckk [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
yourlollipopgurl answered Sunday January 13 2008, 3:29 pm: well you should probably not keep pushin to be with this guy.to me he sounds like he's playin you befor you are even goin out.so i would watch him and talk to some of the girls he's been with . that way you'll find out if he's tellin the truth or not .because if he said he really like you but he's just afraid of commitment
to more than you you are most likely dealing with a player .hope this helps . [ yourlollipopgurl's advice column | Ask yourlollipopgurl A Question ]
meghan2492 answered Sunday January 13 2008, 1:48 pm: This exact same thing happened to me!!
Well if YOU are the one that wants to be commited and HE doesn't then personally I think you should find someone else. On the other hand, still be his friend because maybe he will want a girlfriend when he feels ready. Kepp talking to him. If you have any other problems reach me at my inbox [ meghan2492's advice column | Ask meghan2492 A Question ]
duzzie19 answered Sunday January 13 2008, 1:11 pm: I wouldn't hold anything from over a month ago against him. Feelings change. If you are unsure, lay out your feelings for him in exchange for his honest feelings about your friend, and move from there. Then the two of you can decide the status of your relationship. xoxo [ duzzie19's advice column | Ask duzzie19 A Question ]
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