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No guys like me


Question Posted Thursday January 3 2008, 6:40 am

Im like a guy repelant, NO GUYS LIKE ME!
not one, becuase i dont hang out with the "popular" girls, that means im not worthy enough? I need some pointers on how to be les guy-repelant.


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Brandi_S answered Thursday January 3 2008, 10:44 am:
When you feel unworthy, you put out the vibe to others that you are.
Think of it this way- if a guy is going to go out with a girl solely based on her social status, then he isn't a guy worth dating anyhow.
Like you for who you are, be proud of that, realize you are always worthy, and that is the vibe you will put out to others.

ygs-29/f

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greentea answered Thursday January 3 2008, 10:08 am:
You aren't unattractive to guys, I'm sure.
Maybe you should try being more open and less negative. If you like a boy go for it, don't just mope because he doesn't realize how great you are yet.
Popular people have nothing to do with it, you can find boys anywhere, hell, I eat lunch by a dumpster with thirteen boys whose hair is longer than mine and like death metal.
And I still managed to find a byofriend, not even in my circle of friends.
It all depends on you being open with your crush, go for it, don't wait for them.

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thelaura answered Thursday January 3 2008, 9:57 am:
Oh my.. So what if you don't hang with the "popular" kids?
You're either;
A. Wanting the wrong guys.
B. Putting yourself down too much making you less confident around them. Guys won't really want the "I'm not good enough for anyone" type.
C. Not being very sociable with them.
They won't just come to you. You have to do a little bit of the work, too.
Change your attitude. You're not "guy repelant". and you're just as "worthy" as everyone else.
Remember that.
Things come to those who wait. Just because no guys like you now doesn't mean they won't a little later on.

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