Can i get pregnant with my boyfriend just cumming on my vigi
Question Posted Tuesday May 19 2009, 2:51 pm
Me and my boyfriend have recently been fooling around,but not actually "making love". About one month ago,he cummed ON my vigina,but not IN it..could i be pregnant?
Peeps answered Tuesday May 19 2009, 5:03 pm: I'm so sad that the rumor that "sperm dies instantly outside of the body" or "sperm dies instantly when it hits air" is still being spread, especially on Advicenators. No, sperm does not "die instantly" or even "within seconds" after being ejaculated outside of the body. The sperm swim slower outside of the body, live shorter lifespans (A LOT more than seconds, believe me), and are mostly dead by the time the ejaculate actually dries (which takes more than seconds, right? Right.). If the sperm is on a body part then the body temperature can keep the little guys alive for quite some time. Sperm are amazing little creatures.
Just for reference, men who are trying to raise their sperm count are told to wear loose clothing on their bottom half to help the temperature drop to a cooler temperature. Hmm...doesn't sound like the sperm are DYING from the temperature drop, does it?
If oxygen (or anything in our air) killed the sperm then NOBODY would get pregnant. It's ridiculously unbelievable to think that we, females, have no sort of "air" or "oxygen" in our vaginas. Our vaginas are simply fleshy HOLES--and what happens to be in holes, typically? Air. And when you shove something in a hole, what is pushed first into that hole? Air. And, speaking of this, what are queefs? Air being released from the...VAGINA! Yes, AIR/OXYGEN does NOT kill sperm!
Yes, you have a fairly good chance of being pregnant! Yes, yes, yes!
Sperm need a moist environment to move in. They are little bitty creatures with tails--the tail flutters and propels them throughout the moist area. They are very small so there IS a chance they can swim through fabric even as long as it was throughly moistened. These little guys were designed to ensure reproduction--that is the only reason they are alive; they will do what they can to find the goal.
It only takes ONE sperm to fertilize your one egg inside of you. When a guy ejaculates, billions of sperm are game to finding the egg. Sperm can live inside of you, in perfect conditions, for about 5 - 7 days; however, it is definately not unheard of to find live sperm inside of a woman two weeks later. I would safely say that from the second your vaginal area came in contact with sperm until about two weeks time your egg may become fertilized and pregnancy result.
So, in short, yes, you could have been impregnanted if there was fluid contact to your vaginal area.
If your next period misses then good chances are that you are pregnant. You can take a home pregnancy test then (after the missed period) or go to a clinic for a pregnancy test (more accurate; requires blood sample).
Purchase a few home pregnancy tests and test yourself occassionally if your period does not come next month. Some home pregnancy tests are better than others. According to a couple of studies done, First Response and Early Result Pregnancy Test are the two best kinds to purchase because they are slightly more sensitive than the others. You may want to pick up a couple of those for home usage.
Razhie answered Tuesday May 19 2009, 4:47 pm: YES. IT IS POSSIBLE.
Pregnancy is possible WHENEVER sperm makes contact with a female's vaginal fluids. It's likely those fluids made contact based on what you described.
Sperm DOES NOT die when it's hits air, and it can certainly live for more then 5 seconds. Sperm can actually remain viable for UP TO four hours outside of the human body if it's left alone. Hot or cold water kills it pretty quickly, but without that, it is possible for it to survive.
It's not terribly likely that you'd become pregnant this way, but YES, it is possible. If you have missed your period, you should take a home pregnancy test to be certain. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
itszjessybabey answered Tuesday May 19 2009, 3:33 pm: No, its not possible.
Sperm dies off once its been out of the penis for about 5 seconds. And to be pregnant you have to have the sperm go into your uterus and it takes quiet a process that includes sex. Since it wasnt sex, theres no way you could be pregnant. [ itszjessybabey's advice column | Ask itszjessybabey A Question ]
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