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how to stop..
ok, so i have a problem and i know it. I dont think its huge, but im 14/f and i like looking at porn. i know i shouldnt and i dont understand why i do. i know there is will power, but one thing leads to another and there i am on a porn websight. Ive even tried cyber sex, i know it doesnt have anything to do with porn, but i still did it. I feel horrible for doing this. How do i stop? ive tried saying one look and then be done, but i have to keep looking. And i dont want to go to a doctor or my parents..
Anything will help! and thanks soo much.
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looking at it isnt that bad i mean its normal from what i hear but if you feel like its an obsession then heres what you do you tell yourself that no i cant do this! no one look or glance everytime your going to do it take something away from yourself or pinch yourself or talk to friends go out eat something watch tv. play outside playinside w.e crafts uk the cool stuff!
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ysg is right, you need to distract yourself with more productive hobbies. With that being said, you are in a time of your life, that sex is still exciting and embarrassing for you. Humans are curious by nature, so they seek knowledge. I feel that is what you are doing, curing your curiousity with knowledge. However, it comes to a point where you have to know when you are curious or addicted. I think you are verging on the aspect of addicted. You are not addicted yet. I would suggest to think, what are the consequences if I get caught, by like your parents. Let that be a deciding factor of why not to look anymore. When you get older, and still have this fetish, then seek guidance, but for now, just take yourself out of the situation.
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Well, you know one look seems not to work, so how about no look instead?
When you have the urge to look at porn, try to divert your mind with something constructive. Something that has nothing to do with anything of a sexual nature.
If this is something you have a compulsion to do every time you are online, when the urge hits, shut down the computer.
Better yet, try to find something else to do with your time than go on the computer. The best way to nip this in the bud is to eliminate resources. Meaning, eliminate the computer.
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