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should i?.
well my ex and i are talking again somewhat but he goes back out with one of hus exs and my kind of friends. So we were talking about how we used to go out and stuff and i liek him still what should i do?.. Tell him i like him and that i wish we could go out. Or just keep it quiet?. or give little hints?. i really dont know.!>. please be specific
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Well, does he ever give you hints that he might still like you? And if he goes back out with one of his Exs then he might still have feelings for her and that is why he is dating her again. What you should do is try and move on. If you try to get him back it might just cause a lot of drama.
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How would you feel if you were his girlfriend and some other girl was trying to come inbetween and get with him?
I'm sorry, but I totally disagree with the other columnists.
If I were in your position, I wouldn't bother. Surely if he wanted you as his girlfriend, he would be with you. Not her.
It's the type of thing you'd say to someone who was single. Not in a relationship, as it's just plain out of order.
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EDIT: afterr reading one of the columnists answers, i thought i would clarify something. i do not beleive in breaking people up, because i have been through that, girls coming between me and someone i was serious with. HOWEVER, I do feel it is ok to let someone know how you feel, because you will live with regret
not knowing what would have happened if you let him know.
there is nothing wrong with telling someone how you feel. i do not agree with constant flirting and trying to convince the person to break it off with their bf or gf. like i said before, letting someone know you still have feelings isnt a terrible thing. just let it be known, and let him make his choice
you can drop some hints such as asking him..
-do you ever think about getting back together?
-do you think it was a mistake breaking up?
and just talking about the good memories or cute times might spark somethin between you two.
if you want to make things really clear, you can tell him you think it was a mistake breaking up with him and you have been thinking about him a lot.
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I think that any sort of relationship is based on honesty so I think you should tell your ex how you feel.
Good Luck.
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