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I'm sooo Nervous & Embarrest
Ok so i'm 13 and i have a boyfriend from school and he's really nice, i've liked him for a long time now but he wants to go into town with me and i'm just sat here infront of the computer crying because i don't know what to do because i AM SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO NERVOUS OF GOING INTO TOWN WITH HIM. I mean REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY NERVOUS. i can't eat because of it, i know.. i'm soo pathetic.. it's just because i've never really told my mum & dad that i've had/have a boyfriend and becuase i can never ever seem to talk to boys in a conversation..
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Please say anything that you think can work.
thankyou in advance X
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its okay :) everyone gets nervous; its nothing to cry about. maybe you should hang out with him and some other people and get more comfortable with him before you go into town. but if thats not an option, just go into town with him and dont think about it, i know for a fact that you will have fun once your there with him. it will be a little uncomfortable in the beginning but it will become better!
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As a parent, oh god what is a parent doing reading this and giving advice; it is going to be lame; I know, here is my advice.
The other post is right, first calm down. I remember doing the same thing with the butterflies and unable to eat EVER when I had a new boyfriend. Let me tell ya, good diet!!! I lost about 20 pounds, to damn bad it all came back as I got older ;).
Second, just act normal. If you think of him as a friend and stop worrying about all the pressure of being a boyfriend, it may go smoother. All you have to do is be yourself, that's the person he likes anyways.
I would never say to lie to your parents about you going to meet a guy in town, however, do they know you date? Do they allow you to date? If they do, than honesty is the best policy. I am not going to go into full detail of all the things that could go wrong and they wouldn't know the first thing about getting to you for help. However, if you are intending to go and not let your parents know the full truth, make sure that you tell your best friend about it just in case. Good Luck!
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First of all, you need to calm down.
You're just gonna go to town with him..
It's just going to be you two hanging around, maybe some other friends of yours/his.
I was nervous the first time too...but it's not a big deal, honestly.
If you don't want to tell your parents that you're gonna go out to town with a guy/boyfriend, just tell them you're gonna meet some friends. They probably wont ask you who exactly.
I don't know whether you've kissed your boyfriend yet, or what you've done with him, but it's not like he's going to do something different than he does when you see him in school.
I hope it goes well, and just go to town with him.
:)
And defenetly it's ok to ask me a question :P.
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