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My parents swear so much!!
I sometimes seriously hate them.My dad can be so annoying with the wrong tone and words at the wrong time!!At one time,he takes it jokingly,and at another time,he gets mad.My mom is very bad-tempered.She's always calling me stupid,a bitch,a weirdo,mentally-challenged,and thing like that whenever she gets mad at me.I mean,when my parents are just normal and happy,they're really nice and fun but I think my mom has anger issues.When she loses her temper,she loses it.She doesn't really harm me physically nor my dad,but they say really hurtful things.I did used to respond by talking back,but now,I just ignore it.Three times my mom got mad that I was doing the computer too much and two of the three times she cut all the computer plugs with scissors and got all mad and started pulling books of my shelves and everything.I think it's wrong that they sometimes scare me like that.I hate it when they use verbal abuse and when they threaten me.Like,when my mom was lying on the sofa,she's like:Get me water or I'm gonna give away your dog.
What is UP with that!!What should I do??
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Hey, my name is Em231 and I think I can help you ok
so I think your mom&dad should see a counselar because they need help they should stop acting that
way twords you. Or you should talk to a counselor
at your school about your home life! They might have
soulotions! They might call your parents and talk
to them about how they been acting and how you are
feeling! I hope I helped!
Em231:)
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I personally agree with ygsgirl at one time I talked to my daughter like that and she looked at me and said" mom if you hate me so much why did you have me?" Boy that stopped me in my tracks and I thinking thats the way I was brought up and always promised myself I wouldn't do it to my kids. So I stopped and now we have a closer relationship the kind that she can come and talk to me about anything.
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Write out all the mean and hurtful things they say and do to you when they are angry, then hand it to them when they are being "normal."
Ask them how it would make them feel for their parents to say and do such things to them. Tell them that it makes you feel sad, hurt, and unloved by the two people in the world who aren't supposed to make you feel that way.
Don't try to talk to them about it when they are angry, or they will likely only get angrier and defensive.
ygs-29/f
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If they are bugging you this much, either A. Get out or B. Talk to them about it. Are they alcoholics by chance? That might have something to do with it. You are absolutely right, it is wrong for them to treat you this way. Or you can try to make them happy as much as possible. With your dad, talk to him about his cursing problem and this may help to smooth things over.
Hope I helped!
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