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Friendships ending?
Recently, I don't know why but it seems like all my friends either odn't like or, avoiding me, or loosing interest in me.
Some things that they do alot know is being very sarcastically mean like "Oh...realllllllyyyyy..."
And sometimes i need hlep with my work and when i have a huge assignment and go on, EVERYONE goes offline or says "Sorry, G2g!"
I'm so hurt, what should i do? Making new friends fast isn't a skill that I have and things are the same as usual so it's not that I'm saying things behind their back or anything
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find out why they are doing this. Talk to them. If they can't give you respect start to hang out with some new friends. maybe they just don't want to do your assignments for you, i hate it when people ask me questions where i actually have to think. haha. Maybe invite them to do something really really fun, or hang out with them indivisually and like..act really really fun. If you get them in a group, they might focus on each other. be strong!
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the only thing i can think of saying is maybe you should think about why they are acting this way. then see if the way they are acting is reasonable. and also maybe get them a surprise gift. that could make them feel good and think you are a nice friend.
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Wow, I had the same exact problem last year. My best friend would just give me her thumbs up and pretend to listen. Well, I really dont know how to stop it. Im sorry. What I did was that when would do it, I would give a face saying the expression "yea" (as if I didnt care). I think she got the point and stopped. Maybe your friends dont notice that they are doing that. Maybe they have some problems and are just thinking about it too much. Try what I did, or just talk to them. I know, so weird. But what good about a friendship if you cant be honest with each other. Itll be over soon dont worry about it.
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There is not enough information here to give you a definitive answer. But if you think about it, maybe you can come up with the answer yourself. These are the questions you could ask yourself. What kind of friend are you? Are you helpful or whiney? Do you take or do you give? Are you a good listener, or do you always do the talking? It everything always "about you"? Or do you show an interest in your friends wants, needs and desires?
If you think you can improve in any of these areas, then why not try that, and see if your friends warm up to you again.
- Michele
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