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deal breaker


Question Posted Friday December 14 2007, 4:45 pm

Hey everyone!
I'm 16 and a sophmore
i just recentally started tlaing to this boy who's a senoir at my school.
he's made it clear that he liked me and i certainly like him too
we talk all the time and he is perfect-funny, smart,cute, sweet, athletic and popular.
but that's the only downside, his popularity. he has soo many friends i'm not sure if he'll have anytime for me. At lunch and basketball games he comes see me but then has to go and make an appearence with all of his friends.- once we start going outthings may change?
should i give it a shot or so you think that should eb the deal breaker?


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dancer101 answered Monday December 24 2007, 1:35 am:
ahhh i love these questions :)
i have the SAME story!!
im a soph who likes a senior.
just deal with it, playfully joke with him about it, but make sure he knows your joking.
:)
and also, keep it going, give it a shot!!

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orphans answered Friday December 14 2007, 9:59 pm:
He has friends, is popular, cute, funny, sweet, athletic, perfect, popular...did I mention perfect? haha, he seems like a cool kid and I'm sure he would have time for you if what you're saying about him is true. If your having doubts, forget about them! Live your life the best way that you can, he is obviously trying his hardest to give you some of his time, so don't worry about it. Give the realtaionship a chance, and don't always judge a book by its cover, you never know what the pages may hold. :]
Hope he gives you a lot of extra attention *

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Roxy07 answered Friday December 14 2007, 7:05 pm:
Most definitely give it a shot. You just have to remember that he does have his friends, as you do to, and he has other commitments so you can't necessarily control his life.

But if your into each other, there is no point in denying your feelings because you don't think he wont have enough time for each other.

If you choose not to go for it then you might always think.. What if?! and thinking that always sucks! lol

Make a move hun.. before it's too late! :)

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orphans answered Friday December 14 2007, 7:04 pm:
I think if you like this boy you should give it a shot if it dosnt work out then do what is left to do BREAK UP just give it a shot

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orphans answered Friday December 14 2007, 6:43 pm:
give it a shott!
its not like your singing your life away
if it doesnt work out, then you could always end it.
but he seems so great, and wouldn't you rather do it then not know what you couldve missed out on, and wonder?
also, if youd like, start out in being in an open relationship. like a test. if you dont like it, say after like a month, tell him it wont work out.
another thing you could do is talk to some of his previous girlfriends, and see what they all thought about him
keep me posted =]

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