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everyone keeps saying how hot my BF is


Question Posted Wednesday December 5 2007, 12:51 am

OK so I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and i always thought he was super good looking but I kinda got used to it.

He always compliments me and says i am the hot one, but lately i have come to realise that he is actually way better looking than me. I took him to a party and i had 3 seperate people comment to me on how good looking he is, and then the next day someone else did.

Just now I was talking to a friend of his on msn and she said something along the lines of, i am not surprised you enjoy showing him off, he is HOT!

I suddenly feel like everyone is looking at us and wondering what the hell he is doing with me??
Especially it also doesnt help that he has a more posh job than me too...

Any advice would be good. Thanks


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Purple-Monkey answered Thursday December 6 2007, 3:55 pm:
Just because people compliment your boyfriend dont necessarily think you're ugly.

they just think ur so damn lucky as well as pretty.

Besides, looks dont matter, what matters is the love you and your boyfriend have for each other.

You should appreciate the fact that you have the boy that people would die to have and just appreciate it because your boyfriend obviously loves you, and obviously thinks your beautiful no matter what.

Beauty is only skin deep and what matters is on the inside.

Dont care about what other people think because you can never be too sure anyways. looks can be decieving.

Just focus on what you and your boyfriend have and dont let your insecurities get the better of you.

Focus on the positivity of the situation and take everything as it comes.

Hope this helps :)
xxxx

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Amarete answered Wednesday December 5 2007, 9:12 pm:
Looks aren't everything. So what if he is better looking than you? That doesn't mean he's going to suddenly run off with a model because you aren't pretty enough for him. If the two of you have been together for almost a year, there is obviously something in you that he is attracted to that goes deeper than the skin. He must love you for more than just your face or, if he is as attractive as you say, he would be with the most attractive girl he could find. But a relationship based on lust would never last for as long as a year. You should be proud of the fact that your boyfriend loves you for more than just appearances, and you should also be proud that such a handsome boy is yours to show off. ;D

Just ignore what everyone else is thinking or saying about the two of you and listen to your boyfriend. He knows more about why he's with you than anyone else.

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Brandi_S answered Wednesday December 5 2007, 5:22 pm:
If he says you are hot, that's all the opinion that matters when it comes to the opinion of others.
Take the compliments, and enjoy it. Just think, you got a guy that everyone wants- but he chose YOU. YOU are the one who is special.

ygs-29/f

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