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Would You Freak Out If....
Okay so my guy friend missed a call from his fiance today. He didnt realize it until he left my house. She totally freaked out on him and chewed him out because he didnt answer his phone when she called. It upset him because he didnt really see what the big deal was. It was an accident, and he got chewed out over it. I hate to see him upset, and I was just wondering if you all thought that was irrational of her. They kind of have been fighting off and on latley. A couple weeks ago they were arguing and she was all like "well maybe I should just give you the ring back and forget about getting married." (He had told me about his whole fight with her) When they had that fight it really tore him up. I have known him for awhile now and I know that he hardly ever drinks, and that night he had been drinking,so I could tell something was up. When youre engaged and start being petty and fight over missing phone calls and threatening to give back your engagment ring, dont you think you should just end it or what? 99% of the time, its her starting the fight too. This has been goin on for awhile now, and I just want to see what everyones take on this is. I hate seeing my friend so upset over this. He is too nice of a person to be having to deal with this.
Thanks to everyone who replies.
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You can never really know another person's relationship.
If he isn't happy, then yes, he should end it. Same goes for her.
There is nothing at all you can do but be supportive of whatever choices get made because it really don't matter if you or I think she is a freak. If he wants to marry her, he will. If not, it will end sooner or later.
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She sounds like a control freak to me. He obviously isn't happy right now, and they're not even married yet. Can you imagine how unhappy he's going to be spending the rest of his life with a woman like this? Even though I'm sure he cares about her very much, I think he needs to take a closer look at the situation and think about if he REALLY wants to make a life-long commitment to someone like this or not. If I were him, I would either call off the engagement, or postpone the wedding until they had a chance to get some pre-marriage counceling. You need to be able to see eye-to-eye with your partner about certain things, and that obviously isn't happening in this relationship.
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