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Underaged Sex
Im 14
When i was 11 my boyfriend and i broke up. He wanted to have sex but i said no so he ripped my pannies and shoved his "stuff" in. when he did that he took my virginty. I called it rape.Ever since then i have been having sex. I want to tell my mom but i am scared.everytime I have sex,afterwards I always feel like im going to get caught. The boy I am having sex with right now I like him but he just wants to be "sex buddys".I just found out one of my childhood friends has been liking or loving and talking to him for 2 years. She`s coming to fight me friday or saturday. My sister told me thar should stop talkin to him but I realy like him and I think i might be pregnant by him.
What should I do?
and how can i tell if im pregnant or not without having a pregnacy test or waiting for my period to come
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First off, I hope this is a serious question. If not, you're rediculous - I hope you know.
Anyways:
Yeah, when you were 11, you were raped. However, I'd imagine it would decrease your desire for sex because most girls go through depression after something like that, and they usually have bad body-image issues after that. BUT, no girl is the same & I guess everyone who gets raped will be affected differently.
To tell you the truth, your sister is right. You need to stop having sex. You're WAY too young to be doing that. Sex is a big step in life that shouldn't be taken as lightly as you're taking it. Sex is very serious & you're acting as if it's a game by just sleeping with whoeever you want. And not only that, but you're having unprotected sex with random people you "like" & then not getting checked for STD's. Are you an idiot? ...
Nevermind.
Anyways, you need to take a test & if you're pregnant, sit your mom down & tell her. Have your sister there with you if that makes you feel better. But honestly, I hope she makes you keep it so you can realize the dangers of your actions & so you can learn that not everything works out just peachy in the end. It'll probably fuck you over, but don't you think you deserve it for the way you've been living your life? Stop having sex. Get checked for STD's/AIDS, get a pregnancy test & ditch the dude. And don't fight that chick, no guy is worth it.
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You have to have a pregnancy test. Its the only way to tell.
Stop having sex. Seriously. You are far too young and started far too young. If you keep going like this, you will regret it for a very long time.
Guys will pretend they like you for sex. They will use you if they can get away with it.
You should not let them. Any guy who refuses to like you without you having sex with him is a guy you DO NOT NEED TO BE FRIENDS WITH.
Stop having sex. Give it a few years. Seriously. The next time you have sex, you should be over 16 and in love or something along those lines.
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You can't tell if you are pregnant or not without waiting for your period to come (or not come) and getting tested at home or by a doctor.
Tell your mother what happened, so that the help and the healing can begin. Put your trust in a adult for a while. You aren't supposed to be able to to take care of yourself all by yourself. That is what adults are there for.
Forget about the guy for a while. It's drama you just don't need. He's told you he just wants sex and that is something you obviously don't need in your life right now.
Tell your mother or another adult you can trust. This incident is screwing you up and you know it. Take a breather, go back, make sense of it. You wont be able to move forward, with any guy, until you do.
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Ok, first off this is a very serious situation. Tell your mom or another trusted adult about this. Teachers can help or tehy have school counsulers. I would highly suggest you tell someone, if he did what you said to you. That is rape and that is not right of ANYBODY. The whole prgant thing you shoudl go to teh doctrs and get check out and even tell them about what happened when you were eleven. Call you local information number or go online and type in your city and state and look for the health department number. All states have a health department that you can go to for free and your mom doesn't hav eto know and the doctors tehre will help you. You also shouldn't fight, if she does try to fight you, walk away and tell someone. As far as this "sex buddy" you have. I woudl stop. You could catch an STD and a lot of those are very serious, plus sex is suppose to be something wonderful to share with that special someoen not just a guy that only wants sex. Please just tell someone, there has got to be a trusted adult out there for you to talk to, talk to a friend have them tell thier parents or consular at school or a teacher or another family member, just someone.
Good luck!
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