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stuck on him.
Another boring "love" predicament.
There is this boy I have liked since last year but we've never had much of a chance to talk therefor we aren't really friends. I REALLLLY like him and every day I just get deeper and deeper.
Everyday he always stares or always does something that makes me think he likes me too. My friends would stop me to say that they saw him looking, even random people I hardly know would tell me that. I'd even catch him looking and he won't look away. I've danced with him at dances, and he's pretty much wherever I go. He also copies a lot of my movements and I hear that when guys do that they're subconciously showing they like you. Ex) Standing with arms folded. He'd copy and do the same.
He's the shy type but he hangs around with all the jocks so it just kinda makes it harder to approach him.
I really want to talk to him or get up the nerve to ask him out and I ALWAYS chicken out. I'm stuck in this rut thinking that maybe he'll make a move, but its going NOWHERE.
1. I can't move on. I've tried. I'm too deep.
2. I've tried subtle moves I guess.
Idk what to do anymore.
Any idea's on how I can approach him and make a subtle-obvious move without scaring him off? He's REALLYYY shy and I figure he'd get a little creeped easy.
ANNNNYYY advice would be good.
Even if it has nothing to do with "approaching" him.
THANKS<3
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well i would say just ask him on AIM or email or something..........that sounds odd or dumb but lets face it when you are at scool and you are right in front of him noone is going to want to ask him out right there on the spot..maybe im just shy too but i dont know. or ask him in person when ur alone! hmm im not certain.im sure you will figure something out!
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well first of all, don't get your friends to do it for you, cuz that just shows that you're insecure about the whole thing. talk to him in person, when he's alone. you don't want to risk being embarrased in front of all his friends. haha. If he's shy then he might not make the first move, and if you really want to pursue him, then you'll have to get up the courage to talk to him. Try to catch him in passing periods, or online. Don't make it too obvious and awkward. Think about what you'll say before you approach him. Once you do, it all falls into place and the hard part is over. And who knows maybe it'll be the best thing you've ever done, plus it builds character as a person. :) Good luck! Let me know how things turn out.
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