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Ok so it's my first year of high school and i totaly cant do this whole high school thing i'm already thinking about dropping out because i'm way to stressed i dont feel comfortable asking anyone for help but my sister and my sister wont help me cause i get way to mad when i do homework because i'm so stressed and i can deal with my english teacher because all he does is give you work and more work and barely explains anything what am i supposed to do i am seriously so close to dropping out right now and if i tell my parnts i cant deal with my english teacher and all he does is give work they just tell me right your just be lazy you need to get off your butt and do work i just cant do this anymore what am i supposed to do people my whole life have told me your just being lazy you really are really smart blah blah blah but the real problem that they dont see is that i am stupid i dont understand half the work and i cant do it and i'm not jsut saying that because i hate school or anything cause teh only reason why i hate schoool is because my english teacher and because i'm getting such bad grades
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okay,..heres the thing..i know u said your afraid to ask for help becaus you always get mad.. but u should go over with it with your theacher..dont drop out unless you absoulyly have to as a last resort but i have a brother that dropped out..his life is going nowhere!!! i promise you.. i have to go through the same kind of teacher and i know what it feels like.. as k a friend for help,..or a parent..and if they cant help you then mayby you should try to study harder..or go to a lower english class so you can understand it better. dropping out is not the answer i promise!!!
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I'm going through the same exact thing as you! you know i thought highschool was going to be this whole great new experience and a blast! but the first week was hell and from then on it has been hell all the way through. I felt the same exact way you do with you english teacher except with my math teacher, she was all like "You should already know this stuff and should have already been taught it last year" and well WE DIDNT and so she barely taught it! and so i'm like dude wtf! why cant you just teach it! and i was so frusterated and i was on the verge of failing that class, and she gave like 2 worksheets of fifty problems each like EVERY day and it was just so overwhelming, but i got a tutor and i went to tutorial which is where the teachers give extra help in the morning times before school and well my grade rose from a D all the way up a B- and TRUST ME IT WORKS, its better then sitting there in class staring at a quiz not knowing what the hell is going on. No one will judge you if you go and ask your english teacher for help trust me, this is higschool YOU DO NOT WANT TO FAIL, you will regret it later exspecially if you drop out. So go ask your english teacher for help it will make you feel alot better afterwards trust me
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I guarantee you there are many people in your grade who feel the same way. You're only in your second month of high school, and you're still getting used to it. I know how you feel-- every one of my middle school teachers warned me that high school would be a big change from middle school but I didn't really believe them until I got there.
I suggest staying after school one day to talk to your english teacher about any assignment you are confused on-- he is there to help you. If you still don't get it/don't want to do that, ask a friend in your class. I'd also recommend visiting your guidance counsler. The reason they exist are to help you with problems like these, and they may recommend things you can do to make your work easier.
Basically, don't stress out too much. There are plenty of people who don't adjust right away, but eventually you'll figure it out. Good luck!
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I think you should talk to a counselor about this. They can probably set up something for you that will help you understand the work. A tutor, probably.
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