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i have different groups of friends and i'm not sure we shoul
i have a group of imature friends that i have alot of fun with. but there's a problem, their all total pot heads and trouble makers and then i have a group of friends who are still wierd but not like them and they are a better infuence on me. should i get rid of the pot heads even though some of them arent so bad...they're still my friends, is that all that matters?
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Simply tell them that you don't smoke pot. Don't just ditch them, they're your friends. I tell my friends that I don't smoke, and they completely respect that. Just be honest.
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I wouldn't throw away the friendship, just don't let them influence you. Friends respect what friends want or don't want, so it should be good. =)
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You don't have to dump them so to speak. You have a mind of your own, correct? So if anything comes up and you know it's a bad idea or they pressure you into doing things you don't want to, just say no.
You should only think about not being their friends if they're basically jerks to you.
You can never have too many friends. Keep them all. :)
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Hehe I'm a very bad influence on my friends :] But you don't have to dump them, unless they're pressuring you to stuff that you don't wanna do, or might get you in trouble, or if they constantly get you in trouble. If you have a lot of fun with them, keep them around. You have to have fun every once and a while. They're still your friends, and that's what matters most. But if some of them ever get involved with gangs, drugs, crimes, or anything bad, you should stay away from them, because then they'll want you to join in in all the "fun". So keep a lookout :] You're probably a good influence on your immature friends, maybe they'll change a bit, try to encourage them to do better.
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