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Help with love hate relationship
I have recently started talking to a friend I met in 7th grade we are both now in 11th. We dated in juinor high and were friends after the fact. We have always had a love hate relationship. I knew she had just gotten a boyfriend and I hadnt talked to her in a while because my girlfriend is insicure about her talking to me. So I havent spoken to this person in a while. The other day I was quite bored and out of the blue my friend called me. She told me that a movie that we saw when we were dating when we, was on tv. I was surprised at this because that date was very significant in our relationship. I was even more surprised she would bring this up because I knew she is dating this other guy. She was nice in the begining of the conversation and then our usual her calling me and idiot jokeingly and such started to happen. I then thought to my self when we hung up was she flirting with me or something. Dose anyone this event could mean anything or am I just being paronoid.
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In love-hate relationships, they never seem to end or go away. When a girl comes out like that, actually making a phone call to an ex, it means something. Usually girls won't make a drastic move like that, unless they're serious. In my opinion, if I wasn't over an ex and after some time passed and we were still friends, I'd call if I missed him terribly.
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It could just be she wants to be friends again or it may even have just been light innocent flirting (meaning flirting but not meaning she wants it to lead anywhere). I think you may just be assuming too much from this one phone call. I can't really say for certain her intentions or if you're being paranoid because I don't know her or you well enough or what was said and the tone that was used etc, etc. There are a lot of factors to consider. I will say though to play it smart and cool and just see where it leads. :) The last thing you may want to do is assume too much.
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