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pregnant teen
ugh omg i am extremely freaking out. My mom has been stressed out enough and her boyfriend has been proud of me lately but now im pregnant and don't know if i should make my mom more stressed out or what. the only thing that i am worried about after telling my mom is that she is going to go tell her boyfriend and i don't want him to know anything about it and if i tell my mom she is going to think that everytime i go see the oppsite sex that she is going to not be able to trust me even though being in this position i am scared enough and i never want to be in this position again.
please help A.S.A.P.
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dear pregnant teen,
the best and smartest advice i can give you, is tell an adult. it doesnt have to be your mom, just an adult your close with. But, sooner or later, ( better sooner) your going to have to tell your mom. I know it sucks, and its scary, this happened to my friend. She is 16. and shes scared to death. But, she told her mom, and that was one of her biggest fears. Honestly, you need to talk to your mom. Its the smartest thing to do. Just start off by saying, you know i would never want to dissapoint you, and that i love you. and then tell her.
The worst that can happen is have her say, im mad. cause after all, she is your mom. and she does care bout you. and she will be there for you.
any other questions, im here.
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you didn't include your age or whether your keeping the baby but..you need to tell her as soon as possible i know this situation is totally scary
what i would do is go to your school sycologist or guidance counselor talk to him/her about it and then you can have a meeting so your telling her in a environment where she cant FREAK OUT so much you know? then the 3 (or 4 with boyfriend) of you can think of some ways that this could work ;; tell your mom your REALLY SORRY you made this mistake she probably wont trust you again but if you have the baby you wont have time to hangout with guys and stuff like that but it you get an abortion your pretty much screwed (i don't know your mom or anything but with my mom i would be) your mom and boyfriend will be let down but there's nothing you can really do about it but apologize and.. cry ;; they'll probably feel bad and take it easy on you =/
if you wanna talk about whats going on or anything i can send you my sn if you want it
hope i helped <3
AND PLEASE if you get an abortion and decide to have sex again go on birth control use a condom and be REALLYY careful!!
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Awh , Hun . You will at some point need to tell her . And it's better to tell her earlier , For her to help you decide what you are going to do about this .
I know , It's veryy hard and what not but you NEED to tell her . Also , ask her to take you to a real doctor instead of the store bought ones , They aren't all that acurate .
These things can happen , We all make mistakes . Don't be all down about it . It's over with we can't replay it . Plus , You never know this baby could end up being a really good mistake .
Hope I helped .
Feel free to send me a message anytime .
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YOU need to tell her
forget at the moment what she thinks
just for a second think of the baby
and you must tell somone bout it
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You need help and you need support.
Your mum may be disappointed at first - any mother would. But she needs to know.
Tell her.
Yes, your mum will need to build her trust back for you and may be cautious about letting you see the opposite sex - but it's the price you must pay unfortunately.
Get things sorted as soon as possible.
I hope things turn out okay.
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you might not really like what ima bout to say but you have no other choice but to tell her hun.If you were responsible enough to have sex as a teenager then you have to carry out your responsibiliity and tell your mom your pregnant....finish what you started.You cant hide it,your mom is the only one who is going to help you through pregnancy....dont you think shes gonna be even MORE stressed out when she realizes your stomache is getting bigger as months pass?Hiding it from her will lead you to taking advice from your freinds who wont know how to help you as much as a grown responsible adult will:(
good luck
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You don't really have another choice. You have to tell your mom so she can take you to doctor appointments and help you prepare and stuff. Plus its not like she wont notice :P. If you have more questions please send me a note in my inbox :D
♥♥♥ HiChick
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You have to tell her eventually, and no matter when you pick, it isn't going to be pretty. Try to get her alone, and before you tell her, explain that you are really going to need her support with something. Then, hope for the best. There's nothing I can say other than get it over with, because it isn't going to be a pleasant situation. Good luck.
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