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Bootycall
Well there is this guy.
we were like best friends for a long time and i kinda fell in love with him.
i was sneaking around with him like 2 weeks ago and we always sneak around and fool around.
we had sex.
it just happened. we never hooked up after that and we just act as if nothing ever happened.
i love him and we are still good friends but im afraid that i was a bootycall or something.
before all of this happened, we talked on the phone for hours and he was saying how he had to lose his virginity before his birthday(sunday).
was i being used?
we just had sex and acted as if we never had sex.
its great that we have no awkward moments arond each other now.
so was i a bootycall?
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i know you dont want to hear this but i have to say it i think you were
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it depends... becuase basically he wanted sex before his birthday and so that would be kinda using you
but you say that you fell in love with him. if he fell in love with you too and like you guys actually are positve that you love each other, then it might not have been just a bootycall. you should probably talk to him, and see how he feels about it.
you were deffinately used so that he could lose his virginity before his birthday, but it could have meant something to him. if it was just a hook up, then you were a booty call :/
just talk to him about it and see what he says
good luck and tell me the follow up!
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Maybe.
He wanted to lose his virginity before his birthday & now that he did, he acts like nothing ever happened.
You really need to talk to him about this. He probably doesn't know how you felt so he assumes everything's the same. It's great nothing has changed cause it doesn't make the friendship awkward, but now you're left confused. Fix that.
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Probably.
I'm basing this on
"before all of this happened, we talked on the phone for hours and he was saying how he had to lose his virginity before his birthday(Sunday)."
Only way to know how he really feels about the whole situation is to ask him personally. You never know, he could just be too embarrassed to bring it up.. which is why you should. You deserve to know what went on - so it won't happen again.
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sorryyy but if he doesnt mention it or act like you guys had sex then...
yes.
you were a bootcall =(
i know what an a-s-sholeee. =( talk to him and be upfront to let him know how you feel and that all your respect for him is gone. dont let him walk all over you. stand up for yourself woman.
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