Question Posted Tuesday September 25 2007, 7:07 pm
see my old best friend hates my new best friend what should i do
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? LOL_x0x answered Thursday September 27 2007, 6:12 pm: Get them together and just talk it out.
Try to see why they dislike each other, from both points of view, and then try to resolve the issues at hand.
Go out with both of them, someplace they'll both like. If they both like to mini golf, then go mini golfing. If they both like shopping, go shopping. Get it?
Find a common ground between them, something they both enjoy. This way, they'll be having fun together and with you. Good Luck! =]
torresjasmyne answered Thursday September 27 2007, 1:11 pm: Talk to this old bestfriend and tell them that it is bothering you that they dont get along. And if they are truly your best friends they will learn to get along because you are a friend they don't want to lose. Keep your head up and keep trying because things may get worse before they get better but if you keep at it i promise they will get better and then you will be i tripod...three very close friends. [ torresjasmyne's advice column | Ask torresjasmyne A Question ]
thelaura answered Thursday September 27 2007, 9:09 am: This is a hard question to answer.
Why is (i assume) she your "old" best friend? Did she do something to you to not become your best friend? Or have you just totally dropped her for someone new?
This sounds really immature/petty to me.
If you still like your "old" best friend, include her with the activities etc you have with your new best friend. If she hasn't done anything wrong to you she obviously feels left out and jealous you've moved on to someone else.
If you aren't friends any more, why should you care?
More details would have been nice to answer this question. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
khadiya answered Thursday September 27 2007, 5:15 am: The old one doesnt hat the new one the old one is jealous of the new one. The best thing to do is to make the old one feel included in everything you do. That person feels like the new bbest friend is taking their spot. They might feel like you treat them different. You should ask the old best friend, why do they "hate" the old best friend. [ khadiya's advice column | Ask khadiya A Question ]
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