Question Posted Tuesday September 11 2007, 3:41 pm
Ok so this is my personality I'm outgoing and very LOUD I LOVE TO LAUGH ! Ill laugh at anything and I can be random I like to stand out and sometimes tend to crave center attention =) so there's this girl in two of my periods in highschool this year and she's been talking a lot of crap about how I'm so annoying and how I laugh at everything (which is not true I do know when I'm forcing it and when its the right time to laugh) and its just been pissing me off because she didn't even take the time to get to know me yet and we've been in school for a week and already she's talking shitt its beautiful how she can say stuff behind my back but can't confront herself to me well anyways she stares at me a lot its really weird and I don't want to sound conceided but I think she envies me because she'll only talk shitt on the days I dress nice I KNOW REALLLY WEIRD HUH? what should I do??? Please don't tell me to talk to her about it because I already did today and she still does it and she denied it please help I don't know what to do with her anymore!
If she has to talk about other people in a derogatary manner then she's not interesting at all, unlike you're likely to be if you're such a outgoing person!
Just ignore her and she'll stop it eventually. People will get bored of hearing her bitch about you and she'll have to move on to another subject.
missbananafontana answered Wednesday September 12 2007, 5:10 pm: You should do what makes you feel comfortable, but act like you would if she didn't say nasty things about you. If you think that you laugh at awkward times or a friend or someone who is nice to you politely tells you that it is irritating, listen to them and make them feel more comfortable around you. You should just ignore this girl and act like you would normally. Good Luck! [ missbananafontana's advice column | Ask missbananafontana A Question ]
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