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Why do my best franns hate mehh?
Okay my best frann lets call her Ashley.
She talked to my ex bf and pissed him off to where he broke up with meh. I was so mad at her but I was still her best frann bc we have known eachother for 8 years. But Lately we have been getting into big fights and now she won't talk to mehh bc I asked this guy she likes if he liked her and now she hates mehh for askign him that. She won't belive mehh when I say that he said no. She thinks Im lieing. I want to help her but I can't do that if she likes him so much she doesn't want to belive mehh. She won't even look at me now and she told mehh that if I were a true frann I wouldn't lie to her like tht but Im not lieing. I want to work this out but I have to go to the same school as her and she said if I say one thing to her she will tell everyone all my secrets and Im kinda scared. I have tons of other franns but she is making my frann Kelcie hate mehh. I wish I knew what to do.
Your help would be nice.
thanks.
XOXO
shelbyshoo
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You see she is not a friend that you could trust at all just because she's upset at you doesn't mean she has to threaten you that she'll tell all your secrets,you have to stay away from her otherwise you know the consequences she will be capable of ruining your reputation,talk to Kelcie,try getting her on your side so she could talk to your friend Ashley,convince her to believe you in what you told her, and get you too back to being friends.
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Stop telling her what she doesn't want to hear. Give her some space and don't interfer with her dealings with guys agian.
Some girls are just stupid, plain old stupid, when it comes to guys. It can't be helped. You can either choose not to be thier friend, or you can respectfully accept that they are just going to be dumb as a post when it comes to a guy they like.
Ashley is dumb as a post when it comes to this guy. There is nothing you can do about it.
If you still want to be her friend, leave her alone. She might come around, and be friendly with you agian if you just give her some space. Just don't get in the middle of her love life agian.
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just ignore her. Talk to kelcie. And if the secrets aren't bad then try to talk to her. Give her a phone call and tell her you would never do anything like that to her. Tell her if she doesn't believe he said no to go and ask him. And if she still tells your secrets and doesn't believe you than she never was a true friend. Plus if you need someone to talk to i'm always here. You can always email me at fuzzy_raiders@yahoo.com or add me on msn which is TabithaS.CCMSchick@hotmail.com if you have it. or just ask me questions on my advice column. Hope i helped.
Tabby <3
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Just ignore her. If she is being this mean to you, chances are she doesn't have very many friends. If you are afraid she will tell your secrets, then don't talk to her. If she really becomes a problem, see you school guidance counselor or therapist.
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