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im in love with my friend
15/f
ok im in love with my friend bret he'sa junior, about 5ft 11", has deep blue eyes, blonde hair, and farely skinny, dont he sound hot! well weve been hangin out together since i was a fish and now im a sophmore, we play cards together every day after skool, along with his friends, but we always sit by each other, well i always sit next to him. but ive fallen for him, and he doesnt even realize it, i really like him and i dont want my personal feelings to ruin our friendship, so how do i find out if he likes me? one more ? how do i let him know i like him without it being totally obvious/dramatic?
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A) Not really sure what this 'skool' thing is...
B) How to tell him? Com-put-er. Works like a charm. Myspace, AIM, or even text him on your cell. It gets the message across, without all the akwardness of face-to-face.
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This totally happened to me, too. Ok, well first, you should tell him the truth. Say, "Bret, I really like you. But if you don't like me, it's okay and we can just be friends." Chances are (I'm really sorry I went through it too) that he only likes you as a friend. But now that you are being totally honest with each other, he will probably still be your friend.
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Basically you seem to have a good base already. Sorry to say this but since u guys are such good friends that may mean trouble from the start. People hardly fall for their friends because they see them as brothers or sisters instead of bf gf. On the other hand it may work in your favor and I can tell u really like this guy so I will help out. Start flirting with him and if you can try to hang out just the two of you. Smile a lot and touch him slightly when you are nearby. Good luck with this I wish you the best.
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What you need to do, is spend some one on one time with him. Just hang out, just the two of you. By spending time alone, you'll be able to see if there are sparks and chemistry and all that good stuff. Trust your instincts, just hang out and see where it goes. What's meant to be, will be. Good luck!
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he sounds so gorgeous! and im not even kidding.
first, you have to flirt with him, so he gets the idea that youre into him. then, ask him to hang out, just the two of you. it doesn't have to be a "date" . you two can go to the movies, hang out at his house, something like that. then he'll get the idea. after a while, you need to tell him you have feelings for him, otherwise, he may never know!
good luck hun!
xxtiffany
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