When we were in our 20s, my best friend "Debbie" was an actress in several movies and television shows. Then she married, started a family and retired to be a stay-at-home mom. However, when she was just starting out and was desperate for work, she had a nude role in a movie. It wasn't pornography, but it was graphic.
Her sons are now in high school and college.
Last week, I was searching for her new e-mail address and did a Web search on the Internet. I found several pictures of her that had been taken on the movie set -- and those pictures could definitely be called pornographic.
I doubt if Debbie knows they exist, much less have been posted on the Internet. She is not much of a Net surfer, but her sons are. Should I tell her? Or should I keep my mouth shut and hope for the best?
Tell her. She will appreciate it and as said below if they are pictures possibly taken without her permission and posted without her permission they are something that she should be able to have removed if nothing else than by court order. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
Razhie answered Saturday August 25 2007, 11:35 am: She has a right to know, and depending on the curcimstances, she may be able to have them removed.
Elcee answered Saturday August 25 2007, 7:54 am: I definitely agree with younggrandma in that you should tell her before her sons discover them. It would be better for her to explain the circumstances before they make assumptions. [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
karenR answered Friday August 24 2007, 8:29 pm: I think you should tell her. Don't let her be surprised should her kids come across the pictures.
Give her the chance to explain of their possible existence before they are found. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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