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RUSH


Question Posted Thursday August 23 2007, 11:04 pm

I'm going to be doing Rush soon, for sororities, and I know one of the rules is no alcohol and no talking to guys during Rush. But, My bf goes to another school and I talk to him everyday on the phone so does that mean I can't talk to him either?


Also, I know what happens during Rush but am I allowed to tell the sorority members that I'm really interested in their sorority or do I wait and see what happens on bid day?


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CollegeGirl answered Sunday August 26 2007, 4:39 pm:
Ok..I am going to take a different approach...

I am apart of a sorority.. During rush you want to find out as much about the sorority as possible.

How much are their dues?
How often do they get together?
When are their meetings?
How long are their meetings?
What are the rules if you cant attend a sorority function?
Will you have to pay a fine if your unable to go to a event?
Ask them whats the difference between their sorities and others?
Ask them if they haze or will you have to make you do other things to join?
DO NOT JOIN A SORORITY THAT HAZES!!!!
Ask them how often they go out as a sorority?
What cause do they raise money for?(Every sorority raises money for a cause!)
Ask then what is their favorite activity they do as a sorority!

As for your question
I am not sure about every sorority...but Alpha Gamma Delta (the sorority Im in) does not force girls to not speak to their boyfriends.


Tell the girls you are intersted....in their sorority..
Be excited!
BE YOURSELF!!!!
Be honest..even if your not sure its what they want to hear!

Good luck

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WittyUsernameHere answered Saturday August 25 2007, 7:48 am:
Do you really think theyre going to get ahold of your cell phone records?

Personally, I think sororities and fraternities are fucking stupid. The frat/sorority mentality is people who loved the pecking order and social climate of high school and dont want to let go of it. Its a chance to continue being "the popular kids" or to become one of "the popular kids" when you couldnt quite cut it in high school.

Please at least strive to be a little smarter than the average by not actually taking this that seriously and obeying them and giving them actual authority in your life.

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