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leading him on?
ok theres this guy.. i know he likes me bc hes told me b4. but like i dont like him back. he like calls & texts me every night.. and i havent told him whether i like him or not. when he told me i just said ok bc i didnt know what else to say.. i was kinda suprised. but anyways.. is it wrong to like answer his calls & texts & like talk to him every night if i dont like him? i feel like im leading him on. bc wen were on the phone all he does is flirt with me. and like i still wanna be friends w/ him i just dont wanna go out w/ him
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I'm going through the EXACT same thing. Infact, he just texted me asking if he could call tonight. Ha. I know he likes me, and he knows that I know. And he doesn't even know if I like him or not. BUT, I talk about other guys to him. And when he flirts with me, I'm like "mmk.." So later if he was to accuse me of leading him on, I'd be like "I NEVER flirted back. It's your fault that you didnt' catch my hints."
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hah omggg been there done that!!
I would continue to talk to him, if he does ask if you like him, just say you like him as a friend. If you like talking to him, go for it...but if your leading him on by flirting alot, try to hold back on flirting cus that would definatly give him the wrong idea. telling him you dont like him as more might make him upset, but he wont be really mean to you and stop talking to you.
good luck xoxo
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It's not wrong that you answer his phone calls and texts. You're treating him like a friend. If you haven't told him that you don't like him as more than a friend by now, you need to or else he will get the wrong idea. Don't worry about hurting his feelings or being rude. He needs to know the truth and let him know that being friends is all that you two are going to be. Hopefully he'll understand.
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