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ok i went out w/ my boyfriend for almost a year. then i broke up w/ him & he went out w/ this girl like not that long after.. and shes like a total whore & she was a total bitch to me & completely destroyed the friendship me & this guy had (bc she was mad that it took so long for her to get him to ask her out) so he broke up w/ her & now were friends again.. but now hes like asking me to hook up w/ him? what does all this mean.. i think its kinda weird
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If you mean hooking up in the sexual sense, not dating- then i'd say to stay away from him.
He could be dangerous. You never know. It's just a really unsafe thing to hook up with someone who you don't know really well.
But if you really really want to hook up with him, make SURE you stop at third and if he tries to go any farther then just scream "NO" and leave. you don't want an std and you don't want to ruin your life by being pregnant. Also, chances are- if you do hook up, he'll spread it around. and do you want people to think you're a slut? it will ruin your reputation and your life.
i hope i helped.
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I think he's bad news at least for boyfriend material. He has no idea what he really wants in a relationship, no sense of loyalty and could be doing it to get back at her. Then again, he may realize what he lost and wants it back.
Just tell him that you want to be friends and do not think dating is that great an idea. If he cannot respect your decision it shows that he's not meant to be a part of your life on any scale.
He hurt you once, allowed a friendship to be destroyed and never defended you or told her to lay off. He's all wrong for you and you ought to confront him with why.
He needs to go through that to learn respect for you and other girls in his life. Don't let him back into the picture as a friend let alone anything else until you see he's willing to correct all the problems that led to the pain you felt.
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