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A boy and my friend
Hey my problem is thats my best friend is going out with this really nice guy but when we went to the fair( I show a horse) she saw this guy that got kicked out of our school for sexual harassment and now she has been walking around holding hands with him but she hasnt even broken up with her boyfriend yet what should I say to her!
thx
kj
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Is she your friend? do you love her? If you do you should help her. Let her know that she is being dishonest. Let her know how it makes you feel to see her in this way. You have a responsbility to make sure that your friends and family are "doing the right thing". If this doesn't convince you do it because what she does to others will come back to hunt her and it will be worse. Do you want someone to do the same thing to her? Ask lots of questions and try not to blame her because she will only become defensive.
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tell her that the guy she is going out with is a very nice guy and she shouldnt be playing him like that. and if she doesnt seem to care tell her to break up with him because no body deserves that .. ♥christina
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Dear kj
Thats good that you are concerned about your friends boyfriend and how he would feel about this.
First, confront your friend and tell her that what she is doing is wrong, and she needs to pick a guy not two guys. If she doesn't listen, then you have no choice but to tell her boyfriend whats going on, it may be hard but its the best thing you can do.
Let me know how it goes.
Hope this helps and GOOD LUCK!
AlyssaBT4T
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Is she aware of the fact he got kicked out for sexual harassment? I don't mean to rude in any way, but what would she want to do with a person like that?
Regardless, remind her she has a boyfriend she can hold hands with. A good, nice boyfriend who didn't get kicked out of school for sexual harassment. Explain to her that you think (I'm hoping you agree here) that her current boyfriend is much better for her.
Or, if you want her to dump her current boyfriend (hoping you don't), then just explain to her that it isn't fair to either of the guys that she's flirting with them both.
I hope this helps =]
-Laura. (15-f)
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If I were you, I would be wondering why my best friend is ditching her boyfriend that's a perfectly nice guy for some random boy that's obviously bad news. I would probably tell her just that, too. Just make sure you're nice about it.
Hope that helped :]
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