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ok so i am a smoker... but i dont do drugs (including joints) and last year i was persuaded into trying a joint (no harm done. not my thing.) the problem is now this friend of mine (a cousin of a good friend) thinks i am a regular since i told her and her cousin and another friend about it. i don't like that image of me and i'd hate it if people think i smoke up. she always posts messages on facebook saying how she is really craving "you know what we want". obviously people know what that is. i tried it once and i told my parents they were ok with it cause they know i was just being curious but i don't want people to think i am regular. since i am on vacation, she always sends messages saying when you get back we should hang out and you should come over and you can stay at my place so you don't end up like the first time (hysteric and paranoid) ..... i really don't want to do it let alone to be associated with it. what should i do!?!?!
how do i get it across with out loosing her friendship and making her think i am "closed minded" because i am not i just didn't like it!
help asap!!!
and how do i make her stop talking like that to me.....
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You talk to her about it. Tell her that she needs to stop thinking that you're like that. You smoked, didn't like it & you now want nothing to do with it. Tell her the honest truth. If she gets upset over it or threatens to stop being your friend or just leaves you there, then why would you want a friend like that anyways?
You shouldn't lose a friendship with someone for being honest. Just tell her though. I'm sure she'll understand.
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just tell her you're not into it. and say it in a facebook wall post saying so so other people can see the wall to wall.... or just be like " i dont know what you're talking about..." i doubt she'll think you're close minded because you did try it before.
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