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he ditched me.....AGAIN
17/f
There is this guy i used to go out with, but we broke up and are still good friends. I havent seen him in almost a month and we ocasionally talk on the phone and computer. Well he called me one night and made plans to hangout with me the next day after he go home from work. I was all excited (i still like him more then a friend) so it was 5 and i figured he would be calling soon. well then it was 6 and then 6:30 and i still didnt hear from him so i text him asking if he was home from work yet and no response. so around 8 that night he texts me and was like i had a soccer game and thats it no appologie no phone call he couldnt even call before the game and let me know. well this is not the first time he's done this, is this a sign or message he is trying to send. he acts like he still likes me and wants to be with me and treats me like im his girlfriend, but then goes and does stuff like this. pleaseee someone let me know there oppinion.
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There's two chances here:
Chance One: You could just be a piece of ass. He could see you as nothing but a hookup but treat you like more because he knows it'll work. I think you should pick who you talk to very carefully.
If chance one doesn't seem valid to you, then there's always chance two. Observe:
Chance Two: He could've very well forgot to tell you he had a game. If he was busy getting ready for it & heading to there from work, it's easy to forget things. You can't say you've never been in a rush & forgot something. Everyone has done it. I do that at least twice a week, if not a little more.
Basically, just think about it. Call him sometime this week & ask what happened. He's the only one who can tell you an honest answer [unless he's been dicking around with you this whole time].
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My opinion is that you are being used and maltreated. It's hard to set limits with people in whom you're interested, but it's not healthy to let him treat you this way. You should confront him about it and if he's not willing to change, move on.
Sabine
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