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ok so heres the thing: my brother confessed a secret to me a while ago, he and my stepsister have a relationship and much more... so im like ok watever but like my dad and stepmom started suspectin about this but have not confirmed it yet. one day my dad asked me if i knew somethin about this, to help my bro i said i didnt but i felt hella bad b/c i lied to dad. im soo confused i cant tell my dad but i dont like lyin to him but if i tell him, i would betray my bro..omg wat should I do???
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Your brother's confession has put you in an awful position. There are no blood ties between your brother and your stepsister so there really shouldn't be any problems in them having a relationship. However, that said, if they do break up that is when the problems will start if they can't live in the same house together. You have not given their ages so I am assuming they are still in their teens. Yes you must have felt awful lying to your Dad and you should try to avoid doing so again. If he asks you if you know anything tell him that you were told some things in confidence and he should really be speaking to your brother. That way you are not lying to him and you are also keeping your brothers secret. I know this will inevitably mean that your Dad will realise something is going on and a confrontation may arise from it. This is not your fault and you should not take any of the blame should it come your way. Families are difficult at the best of times to get a good balance and if this does cause problems, please point out to them all that it is not against the law for your brother and stepsister to be together. I hope that when this relationship is out in the open, your Dad and Stepmum are pleased about it. Good luck.
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well i thik you should talk to your bro, about how you feel about lying to your dad and how its put you in the middle, if your dad asks you anything about this again tell him your not too sure but tell your brother to confess to your dad they already suspect him as it is so its better he tells him himself rather than your parents finding out any other way..
hope this helps, good luck x
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Stay out of it completely. If your brother talks to you about it, just say, I don't want to lie to dad when he asks me about you too, and I don't want this on my shoulders. So I'm just gonna ask like I never heard it. And then if you're dad brings it up, just be like i'm not sure. or something. I wouldn't tell on your brother to your dad, becausee thats a pretty big secret. If its brought up again, just kinda pretend like you didn't hear him or something.
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