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I don't want to be gay.
Okay, for all my life I have been hiding the fact that I am gay. For some reason I like men, But I don't want to I don't even admit this. But this has to stop right away. I don't want to be gay I want to be straight PLZ PLZ Tell me a way this can be cured I want to be straight Not gay*
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FIRST OF ALL- I AM STRAIGHT BUT I READ THIS ARTICLE
THE FIRST STEP IN A I READ IN THE READERS DIGEST IS TO
1> TO ADMIT YOUR GAY
2> TELL YOUR PARENTS
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING GAY...
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honestly, if you totally convince yourself you want to be straight, you'll eventually turn around. there's no set way to BE cured, you have to cure YOURSELF. you said "for some reason, i like men" if i were you, i would just accept that and be happy with my sexuality. if you don't like the way people might react, oh well. what they think of you and what you think of yourself are two different things. if you accept the fact that you're gay, then you'll be okay. but if you try to hide it and deny it, then it'll be harder for you.
here's what you should do: think about why you prefer guys over girls. then think about the pro's and con's about both guys and girls. for example: girls start too much drama. guys are more based on the looks, not the personality.
if you TRULEY don't want to be gay, try to hang out with more straight people, and avoid other gay men. sorry if that sounds rude, but that's the only way i can think of. also, try to think of yourself going out with women, and liking them. if you see yourself going back to guys, then i guess you're meant to be gay.
i took a lot of time to think of an answer for you, and i hope this helped. good luck, and if you need any more help, feel free to talk to me anytime.
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honestly dude there are ways to get over it. one method is church, i know some churches eve nhave meetings for gay people who realize they don't want to be gay anymore and they need help to do so. so that's one way.
but honestly if you really don't want to be gay just try having a girlfriend for a while, find out what it's all about, have sex/do something sexual with a girl, learn what it is to be with a woman. to me it sounds a lot better than getting a dick in your ass and semen in your butthole.
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There's no way to cure homosexuality, although some say that it's a spiritual thing that can be cured by religious acts. It's not some kind of sickness you just get over.
There's also nothing wrong with being homosexual. But, if no one else knows, you can continue to hide it if you don't want to be gay. Continue to date girls, experiment with girls, etc. if you want to, but that's honestly not very fair to them, now is it?
Or, you could go out with a guy, and just keep it between you two.
In my opinion? Embrace it. These days, no body cares who you fall inlove with.
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I am so sorry that you are having such a difficult time with your sexuality.
Many people deal with feelings like these when they are growing up however it does not necessarily mean that you are gay. You really need to seek out some advice from an organisation in your area who can help you understand the feelings that you have. They will be able to offer you lots of advice and support.
I must stress to you however, that if you are in fact gay, it has no bearing on you as a person other than this is your sexuality.
You, like every other individual on this planet has right to be who they are and of course to be wonderful with it.
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