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single life =[


Question Posted Friday July 20 2007, 11:15 pm

i've never had a boyfriend, im 15 and i've kissed one person.....i really just want to have a boyfriend, that and to get more experienced, but, how?

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hm299676 answered Saturday July 21 2007, 7:12 pm:
hey...
well im nearly 17 and female!
I had the same problem as you when I was your age! I hadnt had a boyfriend since I was like 11, and those last like a week lol
anyways... one night I went to a school dance last year with my friends male and female
All my friends were up dancing with their boyfriends and I felt kinda low about it, so I asked one of my male friends if he wanted to dance. so we danced like friends do at a school dance, then the next things I knew we were kissing! I felt so happy :) we ended up a couple that night, sadly it ended a few months back!
What i'm trying to say is, it will happen when you least expect it! Its the best feeling when you finally find out there was nothing wrong with you and you just have to wait for the right guy!

Hope I helped :)

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cheney232 answered Saturday July 21 2007, 4:39 am:
sweetie let me tell you right away boys are definetly and never should be the first priority, let your mood go and what ever happens, happens. flirt alitlte and make them no where your coming from but guys hate it when you try super hard for you to get tehm to notice you. just relx and fun with life, you never need experience at these kind of things tehy just fall into place with relationship stuff. i promis you'll be fine :)
hope i helped

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bt4t answered Friday July 20 2007, 11:56 pm:
I wouldn't be so worried about getting a boyfriend. If you're really desperate, that just gets you into trouble when you choose a boyfriend to soon before you get to know them enough to trust them and whatnot, which usually leads to heartbreak, and leaves you even more depressed than you were before.

I would just wait until someone special comes along, rather than trying to find someone. However, if you still want a boyfriend, I'd join some clubs or look around places that you like to hangout. Guys that have the same interests usually turn out to be the best catches. Strike up a conversation with a random guy, and who knows, maybe you'll either find a great friend, or a lasting love relationship.

If you need anymore help, just ask. :)

-Mariah-

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ductape_n_roses answered Friday July 20 2007, 11:55 pm:
Just be yourself.
You can't make yourself into some other person to have a guy like you because the guy wouldn't be liking you for you.
Don't worry. There's a guy for everyone and I'm sure you'll find yours soon, too.

Just don't be afraid to hide you nice, bubbly personality inside =) Talk to guys. I promise you that they don't have cooties. Flirt with guys you like. If they don't flirt back, there are hundreds of other guys out there =) don't let you lack of experience or a lack of returned back flirting discourage you. I'm sure there's at LEAST one guy that likes you and you don't even know it. There may even be two or three or who knows?

Haha. Well, I promise you that there is someone out there that likes you. Just keep your eyes open and you'll find someone =)

And tip: do NOT go out with someone because you feel bad for them or because you're desperate for one. I've been there and done that. It's not a pretty story.

~Emily
15/f

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