ok so im goin to be a junior in highschool next year and for the past two years i have ahd this group of friends where we hang out everyday, and torwards the last couple weeks of school in sophmore year we all got in this huge figh tand the gruop started to split up. a new girl cameinto are group which i hate to admit i tis basically the reason evryone got i nthe fight because she was rude and brought out everyones flaws. now my question is, my best friend is one of the ppl that left the group, she hansg out wit hthis one girl named sam now, i dont know know where to go next year. do i go with my bestfriend which btw we are super close, but the reason she left teh group was to basically get a way from everyone, so do i go wit hher, and this new girl who i don tlike all that much, or do stay with my old group of friedns and get cought up i nall the stupid drama, or should i find just an all new group of friends.??? please help. also my bestfriends little sister is gonna be a freshmen cmoing into ur school and im pretty good friends with her also she is fun and i know some of her friends so thier is that option. im thinking about just moving around so what should i do??
superstarblue89 answered Thursday July 19 2007, 10:27 pm: why do you have to be a "group" why can't you just have lots of friends from lots of walks of life. my friends come from everywhere...they don't all like each other or get along...so I hang out with some of them separate from others...but if I have a party or something (like my birthday last year) they put their differences aside for one day and we're just my friends. Junior year is a great year to make tons of new friends...I did...and you will too...just learn who you can hang out with and which people can tag along so as not to create drama...you don't have to hang out with your friends all at once...you can still hang out with your best friend...and this so-called group just separately...just remember...water and oil don't mix [ superstarblue89's advice column | Ask superstarblue89 A Question ]
xOalmaOx answered Thursday July 19 2007, 3:44 pm: Well high school is a big place. I'm sure you will find a whole lot of different friends, since you will be meeting new people in your classes and such. And why do you have to be considered in a "group?" It's just another cliche in which you will be caught up on drama. Drama is every where you look. Just stay friends with your best friend, of course, but if she has tried to get away from everyone you should to [: It will be a lot of fun trying to meet new friends, and such. Stay in touch with your best friend because who knows you might start hanging out with her and her other friends. [ xOalmaOx's advice column | Ask xOalmaOx A Question ]
hollister_lover09 answered Thursday July 19 2007, 2:38 pm: Well If you are BEST Friends with that girl, and stay friends with her, but hang out with your old friends too. Try hanging out with your best friends sister & her friends, when your with your best friend. Dont just stay with one group of people.. Hope I helped<3 [ hollister_lover09's advice column | Ask hollister_lover09 A Question ]
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