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how come she didnt want to...?
my friend is moving soon and i avoided her for a while because i was really sad that shes moving but when we talk a little and when i say bye i hug her so tight like shes leaving tommrow and she says"dont worry im not going anywhere yet...." and next day i talked to her a lil bit and i was gonna hug her like as we always do but she just turned around and refused to hug me and slowly stopped talking to me after this what do you guys think about this situation?
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When I moved away, the same thing happaned to me. I think she doesn't want to get to close to you, because she thinks when she is going to move, it will be harder to say goodbye. I'm sure both of you guys feel bad that you won't be able to see each other that much and are going through patches where you don't want to be to close. Shes probably just going through a stage where she is very sad she has to move away from all her friends. Try calling her up and sounding friendly. Try not bringing up that she is moving and you guys will probably have a great time. Hugging her everytime probably reminds her that you only can hug her a few more times before you move. I'm sure she wants to hang out with you inside = ]
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awwww i am sorry....
i believe that you should tell her that yes you are sad that she is moving but she doesnt want to see you go so that you were advoiding her becuase you want her to leave without her seeing you sad.
I have had this happen, but i told her that i couldn't see her moving truck pulling away so we spent the whole day before having nothing but fun liek we used too when we were little... lol
i hope that this advice works... please comment and rate me!!! Thank you
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I'm not sure to be honest because I don't really know your friend but my guess would be that she is doing the exact same thing you are/were doing. No doubt she is also taking the move really hard and it always is hard when you see friends move but you both have to remember one very important thing and that is friendship is not weighed by the distance between two friends but by the love they have for each other. If you both are really good friends it won't matter how far either of you are it's not going to change the fact you are both friends. I would suggest you try and talk to her because she may also be trying to distance herself from you in the hopes that it will hurt less when she leaves. It's really bad to hear when people do this in a way to try and lessen the pain becuase I've seen a similar thing on here before. You are both friends and one is moving away so don't kill off what you have by distancing yourself more than you both already will be - give each other the support they need and reassure each other that it won't change how much you both care about each other as friends. Don't lose the small amount of time you have left to be around each other by avoiding each other and such - spend it together so when she leaves she leaves with fond memories and you are left with the same. Just because she is moving it doesn't mean you'll never see each other. That will only happen if one of you decides to stop caring and bothering with each other.
"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend."
--Albert Camus.
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