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woww!!!!
ok i have a friend i have always called my best freind.. but the thing is she is really loud and she CAN NEVER keep a secret but she says its niot her fault it is really how it is.. like one time she told my girl scout leader i was smokin weed.. who9 does that? but anyway we really are loosing contact like everytime we talk we argue ever since i cheated on my girlfriend with her.. only once and i never told no one.. i just dont know what to do .. should i let the freindship go.. or what?
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you should talk to her and tell her how you are feeling. let her know that you like to share your secrets with her, but you wont continue to do so if she keeps telling people. let her know that you want to be able to trust her and know she wont tell your secrets, just as you wouldnt tell her secrets. after youve talked to her if things stay the same, and it doesnt appear that she is trying to change, then let the friendship go.
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Its sad sometimes how friends grow apart from each other, but friends are supposed to be there to help calm you down; not get you stressed! If your losing contact already and it doesnt seem like she, or you, are making the effort to keep the friendship going then I would just leave it be. If she misses your friendship then she will let you know. Best of luck =]
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Well, if she's causing stress and she can't keep your secrets for her life, then you should just let her go. Don't tell her anything you don't want her to tell people and just stay the "say hi in the hallways" friend type thing.
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