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trying 2 save her life
Well wen i was 10 i was raped and all of my friends know well one of my friends told me that she wants 2 get raped(she's a virgin)just so she doesn't have 2 be the only virgin in our cliqué and so she stays on her myspace talking 2 perves im scared 4 her she says on monday she is going 2 meet somebody and im scared she is going 2 get raped and that the person is going 2 kill her so i need advice fast before i might not ever see her again
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Okay, Number one, She is deffinatly going overboard. It's not RAPE if she wants it. Two she need to quit being on myspace cause she does NOT know who is on the OTHER side of that computer. You need to tell her how you felt when you were raped. You need to tell her about the horror the tagedy, and tell her if she meets someone, that she met though a computer, she might not ever come back. Be straight up with her. Don't give her that little child act. You need to be for real and honest or else she just won't get it...
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umm...okay she's kinda weird..who wants to get raped??...it's not rape if your willing to do it...umm..just tell her wat your doing is stupid..and the rite person will come someday..just cause she's still a virgin does'nt mean it's a bad thing..i'm a virgin...just sit down and talk to her and tell her it's really stupid...and the rite guy will come one day..
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you need to tell someone maybe her parent.. um an adult thats close to her, it might be awkward maybe even your paretn if you are that good of friends. ik it might be hard, but if you want to see her you need to tell someone. you need to have a serious talk with her, it might be hard but maybe if you explain to her waht it was liek fo you and the person below me was right, its not rape if she is willingly asking someone. im not a religious person at all but god bless her. i hope you can talk to her.
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Are you serious? Your friend WANTS to get raped? She's just asking to get killed as well. And it's not rape if she's WILLINGLY giving herself away to some pervert on MySpace. Explain to your friend that sex isn't a game. It's not "Alright! Whoever's left the virgin isn't cool!" or whatever. Tell her parents about this and make her stop. It doesn't matter if she gets in trouble, she's indangering her life. I don't know what idiot would want to get raped, period. >_< GAH. This question disappoints me, majorly. Get your friend help, for her safety.
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Tell her parents immediately. To be honest, your friends a friggin idiot. Her parents will stop her from doing this. Also you should report the people she's talking to, to the cops. That way they can't harm her or anyone else. Tell her how much being raped has hurt you. If she hears it from you, it may change her mind. Furthermore, explain how sex is supposed to be reserved for people who love each other.
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This is pretty bizarre behavior let alone strange dialogue she is having with you and others. It's in your best interest to do two things here.
The first thing to do is let your family know what happened to you at age 10 and the circumstances and who did it as your letter makes me think you haven't. This part is important so the bastard who raped you doesn't go after other girls and there are more victims.
The second thing to do is tell your parents what your friend said and about her hanging out on line with perverts and that she said she was meeting someone from online she never met on Monday.
They'll call her family and work it out. If you have a trusted adult, older sibling, aunt, uncle, teacher, therapist tell them about it Monday morning anonymously and have them contact her family as she might even need psychiatric help (I'm not kidding) considering her mentality and those remarks.
Normal teens don't make those statements or joke or take rape lightly even hoping to be raped themselves? Does that sound at all normal? Don't worry about her or anyone getting pissed for doing this either as it has to come out to adults.
She'll appreciate it in the end as someone needs to save her ass as meeting a pervert alone from online is horrible news to hear from her. So, log off now and tell an adult you trust immediately. That's the only advice anyone will give you here repeatedly as it's the right advice.
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Hey, well you need to invite her over your house, sit her down, and have a nice big long talk with her. Explain to her that getting raped is NOTHING like having sex and that its often painful when forced on you. Tell her thats its not a pleasant experience and that when you loose your virginity, its suppose to be something special and actual real sex that isnt forced on you. Let her know that bad things sometimes happen when girls get raped, like they could kill you after there done using you. Explain to her that you love her & that your just looking out for her. Also explain to her about the STDS that she could pick up from her rapist and also the risk of getting pregnant. There are a lot of bad things that could come out of getting raped and she needs to know them. Maybe write her a little note/letter with what i just told you on it and give it to her when she comes over, than talk about it. Good luck and i really hope that she listens.
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Tell her that she's pretty dumb. She WANTS to get raped? Does she know that over half of girls who are raped are also killed afterward. Tell her she doesn't need to lose her virginity to be a part of your friends. Tell her parents what she's doing, if you have to. Heck, tell the police. I don't know.. just do what you can to stop her; she's playing with fire. =/
--Jack
(15/m)
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