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okay so lately i havent felt really needed by anyone at all. like i know that my family needs me and its not like im a total nerd or loser or whatever and i dont have any friends. but i seem to be the only one planning everything. you know when we hangout and stuff. and its real bad between me and my one friend. like i keep droping hints to her but she doesnt seem to notice.
HELP!!!!
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yep i've been in that situation so many times =[
really don't like it, you should try and relax a bit on the term "organizing" next time you do anything just make it chilled out.. like call your friend and some others to just like chill out on the beach or something like that, or crash at your house or something.. it seems like your friends are a bit more relaxed then you are which will annoy you because your not really like that
your missing a friend who is a bit more like you.. with all the organizing and everything (you need to find a friend who is like that.. one is enough)
and this girl your friends with.. just talk to her like.. all the time and it will slowly make you feel better because.. the more you talk to her the more important you will be in her life.. and you will find that if (after talkin to her atleast 2 hours a day) if you don't talk to her one day.. the next day she will be the one ringing you.. or checking if your online on msn :)
its a really small thing but i know it makes me happy.. - I just started talkin to this girl who ive known for about a year but i hadn't spoken to her or seen her for like 6 months - and for the last week ive spoke to her on msn about an hour every day.. then for the last 2 days she was the one starting the convo.. and yesterday (lol) she started talking and i wasn't there and so she thought i was ignoring her and was getting really upset. even though she was upset, it made me pretty happy =P im sure you know what i mean
i hope i helped....
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Sometimes that happens to the best of us it is totlally normal...I also had a friend once who had done that to me..very recently...you really need to talk to her...tell her that she has kind of been making you feel unwanted or not appreciated and that you know she wasnt trying to but it was hurting your feelings. If she gets mad at you for telling her how you feel than shes not a true friend. I hope this helps good luck!
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The same with me this summer, but I really don't mind because that way I won't get stuck doing something I really don't want to do. I mean people always call me and two of my other friends "The most popular girls in our grade" but that doesn't always mean people are going to die if they don't make plans with you. So it doesn't always have to do with status. So just don't worry, maybe they want to chill and not make a bunch of plans, or maybe they're really busy?
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i feel the same way lately, like, lonely without any reason. it makes zero sense.
but um, you should be completely straight forward with your friend, tell her you feel like you two are drifting apart but you don't want to lose her. she should feel the same way if she's a good friend.
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