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i drew on their pictures in my yearbook.
okay there are these 2 girls.. not necessarily popular or unpopular. one of them i used to think was okay then she turned really fake and i just really disliked her. the other one she always was like pissed at me. and we were in the same cooking group.. this was before i knew problems would arise.. btw its a cooking group for my 7th grade home ec class. one of the other girls in my group is like on everyone's side but sticks to side of the girl who's always pissed at me. the other one is my friend but shes also kinda on everyones side. anyways in my yearbook i colored on the fake girl's picture in green, and wrote 'fake ogre' next to it. then i drew horns and ugly glasses and a mustache. i did the same to the 'pissed off' girl except i didnt color her in green cuz i didnt feel like it. then today that girl (not the pissed one, the other one who i colored on) asked to sign my yearbook. i didnt want her to, but im like... ok.. i should have said i had like no room left which would be true, but i guess i didnt. so she checked through the yearbook cause some girl told her what i put in the book and she wanted to see. then in home ec she said all these little side comments about it and was like "did you make ___ an ogre too?" she was talking about the girl who was kinda on everyone's side (not my friend, the other one) then i said no. really i dont care if im her friend or not. im really a nice person.. alot of my friends are shocked i did that to their pics but what can i say i was really mad at them and saying sorry wouldnt change the pictures nor would it actually be a sincere apology. i also dont care if they do something bad to my picture.. cause i dont need to be friends with them. by the way tomorrow is the last day of school.. um what do you think of what i did? was it totally crazy or can you like.. relate, and what do i do if they get all up in my face about it? cause yeah i dont care.. but i wanna know if what im doing is right, and what the proper response should be to this.
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I understand your position and that you wanted to rid yourself of anger by drawing on their pictures, and truthfully I think you are pretty mature for your age, but as you age and grow more mature you are going to wonder why you have made markings on their pictures. As the years keep on coming you aren't going to want to be at war with anyone at all. It's best to stay on good terms with people even if speaking your mind seems like the solution. You may speak your mind, but after you have said what you felt had a purpose, it is time to be civilized.
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PMS is no excuse to be fake, mean or bitchy to someone. You can't just be an asshole because you don't feel good.
Honestly, it really depends on how much you paid for your yearbook. If it was cheap [10-20bucks], then it's not too bad, but if it was expensive like [30 or more], then yeh; I'd wonder why the hell you just ruined it.
I've been tempted to do that to my yearbook for the people I don't like as well, but I paid $60 for mine, and I'm not ruining it just because I don't like someone. If you don't like these girls, then show no regrets to what you did. If you don't like someone, you don't like someone & that's that. Don't ever feel bad about what you do to someone unless you love them & it hurts them. If you dislike them, then forget what they think or how they feel about something you do.
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I very much agree with the person below me. It was childish.
However, it's not like a lot of people don't do it. It's something we do that we grow out of. Hopefully sooner rather than later. In 6th grade I did a similar thing to this boy's picture and he ended up leaving the school soon after. We ended up back in classes together in high school and now he's actually one of my best friends. do I regret it? hell yes. can I take it back? no. hopefully you'll find a friend like mine who'll forgive it and laugh.
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Honestly, coloring on someone's picture in your yearbook is sort of childish. I do think it was kind of "crazy" as you say. What you did isn't right- and you sort of over-reacted to your "friends'" actions. You could have just told them how they upset you, rather than drawing on their pictures. If you don't want them as friends, that's fine, but you'll have to live with those drawings when you look back at your yearbook in 20 years.
You asked for an opinion, so there you go.
--Jack
(15/m)
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